Ok so a little about myself. I am a sophmore in highschool. I have alot of friends. In my highschool there are pretty much two types of girls. The girls who party every night and get wasted. That's not for me. Then there are the girls who don't do that. Obviously i am going for the latter of the two. So i play three sports. I'm not a superstar, but i play atleast. I get good grades. I'm not amazing looking, but i'm not bad. I am really not that confident. I talk to girls. I have never really gone out with a girl. Now i came here to change. I'll listen to anybody's advice. I'll do what you say and give you the updates. So any advice is welcome. If you have any other questions just ask?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ready to Change::Need help/advice
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mr.Freestyler19
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its good to hear tht you want to change man
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
Gettin the girl should not be the goal...its good you want to change because before you know it you will get the girl...for now focus on getting a life and experiencing new things
Well for one thing, party girls are fun, sociable, and usually not frigid. Unlike the girls who don't party who are usually losers who stay at home all day.tiesto5 said:I've been reading the bible.
I need like a coach sort of, someone to set goals or something like that
Give me some reasons to be ok with the party girls
I'll give you an update after tomorrow's day at school
The party girls are the ones who will boost your social proof, will be more sexual with you and you'll be more likely to fvck them, or atleast pull them.
Ok well you guys convinced me to not rule out the party girls so their's another option.
So today i got to school today talked to some guy friends about their weekends and the olympics. Go USA Hockey
A girl came up to me and talked to me about my weekend but i'm not that into her. Her problem is somedays she looks hot but most of the time she's not even hot.
Then later on there are these two girls that are best friends both HB6's. The one girl i know pretty well i only see her one period a day though. Were friendly but idk if she is into me. Her friend i think use to be into me, but i blew that one.
Any Advice on these girls??
Are they worth pusrsuing, if so, how should i do it??
So today i got to school today talked to some guy friends about their weekends and the olympics. Go USA Hockey
A girl came up to me and talked to me about my weekend but i'm not that into her. Her problem is somedays she looks hot but most of the time she's not even hot.
Then later on there are these two girls that are best friends both HB6's. The one girl i know pretty well i only see her one period a day though. Were friendly but idk if she is into me. Her friend i think use to be into me, but i blew that one.
Any Advice on these girls??
Are they worth pusrsuing, if so, how should i do it??
Mr.Freestyler19
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ask them for a pencil/pen......then say thanks ( pause)...wats ur name? thanks _________. build up from there
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr.Freestyler19 said:ask them for a pencil/pen......then say thanks ( pause)...wats ur name? thanks _________. build up from there
I know them and have spoken with them before...
Anything else??