Reading the result of the breakup

[Desdinova]

Every time I break up with a woman, there seems to be one of two results:

1) She gets pissed off, tries to eliminate you from her life, and moves on

2) She fights to keep contact with you, even if you don't want it anymore with her

I've been thinking about these two main results and what they indicate about the relationship you had with her. Is situation #1 the result of her trying to use you and not getting her own way? Is situation #2 the result of a woman who genuinely cares and perhaps even secretly feels in love with you?

Thoughts?

 

[Bible_Belt]

a woman who genuinely cares and perhaps even secretly feels in love with you?


That's the perfect way to describe an ex. If it's true, then you did everything correctly. Accumulate exes like that over your lifetime, and it will be good for your karma.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Des,
Why does this matter?

 

[Desdinova]

Dear Des,
Why does this matter?

Because I like to get as close to understanding women as I can.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Don't discourage DES' analysis, it's good introspection and adds to men's collective understanding.

I've stated before that breaking up with a girl is the highest form of DHV for a guy when he's the one initiating it. It's a harsh confirmation for a woman when a guy puts himself out of reach of a woman.

 

[Colossus]

It's the same with men.

Actually, it's #2, or the guy is apathetic or even relieved she dumped him so he didnt have to do the dirty work.