"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Reading Signs

Fabio

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I recently just got back from a March break trip with like 50 other kids at my school(not school sanctioned though) and well there I let it all loose and basically alot of ppl who never really noticed or talked to me before do now. So when we got back the first night one of the girls on the trip IMed right away to see if i wanted a ride to a party with her. I had honestly never talked to this girl b4 online or at school she is younger than me but still hot so anyway we went to the party that night but we just mingled with other ppl talked a little to each other at the party but we had just gotten back and had our own friends to catch up with.

Since then she has been messaging me everyday and waves or something every time i see her in the halls at school. The thing is though she is a really friendly person in general and so i dunno how to take it she calls me hun and stuff online so i was wonder if she was digging me or just looking to befriend me?

I dont have trouble picking up when i do the work its just im retarded when the girl makes the advance lol when it comes to reading signals anyway.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Jerky Boi

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Yeah, I know a lot of girls who are really flirtatious like that, but you never know; it sounds like she might be interested in you. Get her number and ask her out sometime :)
 

fbplayer06

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Jump on the chance bro. Think of how you'll feel when she LJBF you and you look back on this opportunity. Go get'm, Tiger. ;)
 

Supero Masculus

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Seems to me that you got 2 options,

A) Wait and find out if she digs. LJBF rating (9)

B) Grab your balls and ask her about it all. LJBF rating (3)

If thats not clear enough then beat yourself over the head and go with (B)!! You'll find out sure enough!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fabio

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Thanks and ya ill get around to asking her either way whats the worst that could happen eh but for the next two weekends fer her and me its a busy time so i dunno when.


Another thing she has said is that i make her laugh and that im good at it(making her laugh) which seems like a good thing (realationship wise) but I'm again retarded with signals.
 
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