"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Reading Sci-Fi novels = Too AFC?

Yotsuya-san

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A lot of sci-fi provides wish fulfillment fantasies for nerds. Take Hiro Nakamura from Heroes. He is a loser geek who becomes a (no pun intended) Hero and gets the girl and becomes cool. Sci fi is full of characters who would be otherwise dorks but are considered cool in their sci-fi universe. A lot of science fiction, particularly "hard science fiction" has scientists and brainy types as the hero. Usually, in the written sci-fi, such heroes are not described as looking like handsome movie stars but plain looking (this is very common with female sci-fi authors and their characters). It's sort of a revenge against mainstream heroes who are always conventionally good looking, brave, athletic, macho, everything that the nerd can't be without not being a nerd anymore.

The harem anime (Tenchi and Oh My Goddess) is most definitely wish fullfillment fantasy for nerds and wapanese.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I like sci-fi.

But Star Wars in particular you can actually pick up good behavior from by watching Harrison Ford. Harrison Ford is the MAN in the original Star Wars trilogy.

It's interesting to see the difference between the old SW trilogy and the new SW trilogy. Whereas the old trilogy has Harrison Ford, the new trilogy has Hayden Christiansen acting like a complete, wimpy AFC.

Just a sign of the changing times....
 

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I love sci-fi. I love fantasy stuff.

Your question isn't about reading selections, or the maturity they reflect. It's about social intelligence and your ability to express it. There's a stigma that comes with enjoying Sci-Fi, but only for those who make it a stigma for themselves.
 

Flabbergasped?

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I once played Starcraft while a chick I had just banged was asleep in my bed.

Seriously, no one cares. I will say this: there are some activities that are more interesting to talk about than others. For example, I wouldn't necessarily go on a long-winded discussion about video games with a girl, but it's not like playing them makes me a p00n.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Chicks for the most part don't go for hard science fiction. Found that out the hard way. Once showed a chick 2001: A Space Odyssey and she kept complaining that nothing was happening. And this is one of those chicks who is convinced beyond doubth that the Matrix trilogy is brimming with philosophical and existential depth. She was disappointed that I didn't have those movies in my collection. Tried to get her to read the novelization by A.C. Clarke (it makes the movie easier to understand), but she wasn't interested. She later admitted that she's not really a sci-fi fan, she just likes movies like Matrix and Harry Potter. Unfortunately, chicks who really like sci-fi---and if you really like it, 1)you call it SF or short and 2)you read it as well as watch it and 3)you don't confuse Hollywood SPFX action flicks for science fiction.--- are few and far between.
 
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