anyone had a problem tryin to tell if a girl is interested? theres this chick who next to me in my science class and her boyfriend sits across from us. how do i handle this. ive just been doin my thing so far. she is absolutely the most sociable girl ive ever seen. she talks to everyone. her boyfriend and i more than the others though. i have NO worries whatsoever starting conversations with her because 95 percent of the time she starts it. shes always touching my hand or punching my legs or some kind of physical contact. i am well aware that this could be her nature to be sociable, so i dont make anything of her talking to me at this point. the difference between the nice guys at my table and myself is the physical contact thing. i always try to underestimate these things with girls because i dont wanna be upset if something goes wrong like i used to. i play everything low key. as for her boyfriend, how should i handle him. hes a natural with girls so i have payed attention to what makes him so good with girls in detail. so you guys think shes interested or what? and last class she was sayin stuff like, "jimmy, are we breakin up?" in her playful way. i forget but she was askin stuff like "are we hangin out today" im like "well ive got other things to do" anyway im headed in the right direction here. but how should i handle her boyfriend? i think i should just do my thing and let the pieces fall into place. im more comfortable around other guys now because im a hell of a lot stronger than i was not too long ago. no worries from him physically. and there are quite a few fights in our school and i dont think it will be long before i get into one.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
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don't get your hopes up she just sounds like she likes to flirt and play around.
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Yeah, it sounds like she's very firmly with her boyfriend, and as you said, she sounds "very sociable".
don't get your hopes up
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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no im definitely not getting my hopes up. today she was just being stupid. she keeps saying i cheated on her because my folders and everything are littered from girls writing on them. annoying