"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JayCamx23

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anyone had a problem tryin to tell if a girl is interested? theres this chick who next to me in my science class and her boyfriend sits across from us. how do i handle this. ive just been doin my thing so far. she is absolutely the most sociable girl ive ever seen. she talks to everyone. her boyfriend and i more than the others though. i have NO worries whatsoever starting conversations with her because 95 percent of the time she starts it. shes always touching my hand or punching my legs or some kind of physical contact. i am well aware that this could be her nature to be sociable, so i dont make anything of her talking to me at this point. the difference between the nice guys at my table and myself is the physical contact thing. i always try to underestimate these things with girls because i dont wanna be upset if something goes wrong like i used to. i play everything low key. as for her boyfriend, how should i handle him. hes a natural with girls so i have payed attention to what makes him so good with girls in detail. so you guys think shes interested or what? and last class she was sayin stuff like, "jimmy, are we breakin up?" in her playful way. i forget but she was askin stuff like "are we hangin out today" im like "well ive got other things to do" anyway im headed in the right direction here. but how should i handle her boyfriend? i think i should just do my thing and let the pieces fall into place. im more comfortable around other guys now because im a hell of a lot stronger than i was not too long ago. no worries from him physically. and there are quite a few fights in our school and i dont think it will be long before i get into one.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah, it sounds like she's very firmly with her boyfriend, and as you said, she sounds "very sociable".

don't get your hopes up
 

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She's got A.D.D.
 

JayCamx23

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no im definitely not getting my hopes up. today she was just being stupid. she keeps saying i cheated on her because my folders and everything are littered from girls writing on them. annoying
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by JayCamx23
no im definitely not getting my hopes up. today she was just being stupid. she keeps saying i cheated on her because my folders and everything are littered from girls writing on them. annoying
Women over-analyze just about everything a man does. It's no shocker that she thinks you have another girl in your life.
 

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just keep on using charm and let the pieces fall as they will. fretting wont do you any good, but i wouldnt bank on this chick.
 
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