"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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JayCamx23

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anyone had a problem tryin to tell if a girl is interested? theres this chick who next to me in my science class and her boyfriend sits across from us. how do i handle this. ive just been doin my thing so far. she is absolutely the most sociable girl ive ever seen. she talks to everyone. her boyfriend and i more than the others though. i have NO worries whatsoever starting conversations with her because 95 percent of the time she starts it. shes always touching my hand or punching my legs or some kind of physical contact. i am well aware that this could be her nature to be sociable, so i dont make anything of her talking to me at this point. the difference between the nice guys at my table and myself is the physical contact thing. i always try to underestimate these things with girls because i dont wanna be upset if something goes wrong like i used to. i play everything low key. as for her boyfriend, how should i handle him. hes a natural with girls so i have payed attention to what makes him so good with girls in detail. so you guys think shes interested or what? and last class she was sayin stuff like, "jimmy, are we breakin up?" in her playful way. i forget but she was askin stuff like "are we hangin out today" im like "well ive got other things to do" anyway im headed in the right direction here. but how should i handle her boyfriend? i think i should just do my thing and let the pieces fall into place. im more comfortable around other guys now because im a hell of a lot stronger than i was not too long ago. no worries from him physically. and there are quite a few fights in our school and i dont think it will be long before i get into one.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, it sounds like she's very firmly with her boyfriend, and as you said, she sounds "very sociable".

don't get your hopes up
 

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She's got A.D.D.
 

JayCamx23

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no im definitely not getting my hopes up. today she was just being stupid. she keeps saying i cheated on her because my folders and everything are littered from girls writing on them. annoying
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by JayCamx23
no im definitely not getting my hopes up. today she was just being stupid. she keeps saying i cheated on her because my folders and everything are littered from girls writing on them. annoying
Women over-analyze just about everything a man does. It's no shocker that she thinks you have another girl in your life.
 

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just keep on using charm and let the pieces fall as they will. fretting wont do you any good, but i wouldnt bank on this chick.
 
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