CapedCrusader08
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Has made me overthink and over analyze alot of things,thus adding to my frustrations,and altering my perceptions.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
reading all this stuff on here....
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Read the official site more, www.sosuave.com
The articles there will probably put more positive energy into you. On the forums, people tend to overanalyze, I kind of prefer the site more.
The articles there will probably put more positive energy into you. On the forums, people tend to overanalyze, I kind of prefer the site more.
CapedCrusader08
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I know. But,on my days off,I just lounge around. and reading about the skills everyone else has managed to interpret,makes me feel worse. Esp those younger.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Here's a confidence booster: Don't believe half the sh!t you hear on these forums.CapedCrusader08 said:I know. But,on my days off,I just lounge around. and reading about the skills everyone else has managed to interpret,makes me feel worse. Esp those younger.
There are rep ratings for a reason. Trust me, not everyone on this forum is knee deep in pvssy; or even close to it.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Totally true . Watch (if possible) :
Blueprint Decoded
Jeffy Show
Flawless Natural
This is all youll ever need to know . All the rest comes from Field WORK .
Enjoying yourself +
Being positive +
Self amusing yourself +
Not taking sh1t from girls
= In state , good vibe , not pvssy
= The coolest motherfvcker in the planet
Ill write a longer post about this later when i have more time because this will help many people . Community is just screwing them up .
Blueprint Decoded
Jeffy Show
Flawless Natural
This is all youll ever need to know . All the rest comes from Field WORK .
Enjoying yourself +
Being positive +
Self amusing yourself +
Not taking sh1t from girls
= In state , good vibe , not pvssy
= The coolest motherfvcker in the planet
Ill write a longer post about this later when i have more time because this will help many people . Community is just screwing them up .
SuavePlaya
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Caped just believe people that reasons with your own logic even if they have 1000 rep points. If it doesnt make any sense to you don't let it sink in. Everybody has a different style of doing things and what works for them.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
CC is the master self flagellator.
He truly knows how to masterfully destroy any self confidence he can possibly have in himself.
In fact, he 'lounges around' just to let his nefarious mind turn into a massive dynamo of self loathing, self doubt, and misery.
Way to go,CC.
CC, you are your own worst enemy.
At some point you will stop smashing your head against the wall.
Unfortunately, you're not getting any younger, and you cant manufacture more time, so alas, you may be on your death bed before you finally let go of all this self sabotage.
He truly knows how to masterfully destroy any self confidence he can possibly have in himself.
In fact, he 'lounges around' just to let his nefarious mind turn into a massive dynamo of self loathing, self doubt, and misery.
Way to go,CC.
CC, you are your own worst enemy.
At some point you will stop smashing your head against the wall.
Unfortunately, you're not getting any younger, and you cant manufacture more time, so alas, you may be on your death bed before you finally let go of all this self sabotage.
SharinganUser
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Here is the ironic thing I've found out in the last 2 years or so.
The LESS you know about women, the better.
In the martial arts, the more you think about a technique, the more time and energy it takes execute that very technique. If however you are just aware of what is going on around you, you can react alot faster and more effectively. It the same with women.
So one of the only thing you really "need" to know from this site or life in general.
If you see something you want, go for it.
The LESS you know about women, the better.
In the martial arts, the more you think about a technique, the more time and energy it takes execute that very technique. If however you are just aware of what is going on around you, you can react alot faster and more effectively. It the same with women.
So one of the only thing you really "need" to know from this site or life in general.
If you see something you want, go for it.
CapedCrusader08
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I guess what I have really wanted is to change and become the person I want to be,but I have a hard time doing it. I think it is caused due to depression. I mean,I watch and read about all these guy's who have changed they're lives,and yet I haven't. And listening to that negative inner voice. I have to change that. I have to take the steps to undo it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.