CapedCrusader08
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Has made me overthink and over analyze alot of things,thus adding to my frustrations,and altering my perceptions.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
reading all this stuff on here....
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Read the official site more, www.sosuave.com
The articles there will probably put more positive energy into you. On the forums, people tend to overanalyze, I kind of prefer the site more.
The articles there will probably put more positive energy into you. On the forums, people tend to overanalyze, I kind of prefer the site more.
CapedCrusader08
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I know. But,on my days off,I just lounge around. and reading about the skills everyone else has managed to interpret,makes me feel worse. Esp those younger.
WC2
Master Don Juan
Here's a confidence booster: Don't believe half the sh!t you hear on these forums.CapedCrusader08 said:I know. But,on my days off,I just lounge around. and reading about the skills everyone else has managed to interpret,makes me feel worse. Esp those younger.
There are rep ratings for a reason. Trust me, not everyone on this forum is knee deep in pvssy; or even close to it.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Totally true . Watch (if possible) :
Blueprint Decoded
Jeffy Show
Flawless Natural
This is all youll ever need to know . All the rest comes from Field WORK .
Enjoying yourself +
Being positive +
Self amusing yourself +
Not taking sh1t from girls
= In state , good vibe , not pvssy
= The coolest motherfvcker in the planet
Ill write a longer post about this later when i have more time because this will help many people . Community is just screwing them up .
Blueprint Decoded
Jeffy Show
Flawless Natural
This is all youll ever need to know . All the rest comes from Field WORK .
Enjoying yourself +
Being positive +
Self amusing yourself +
Not taking sh1t from girls
= In state , good vibe , not pvssy
= The coolest motherfvcker in the planet
Ill write a longer post about this later when i have more time because this will help many people . Community is just screwing them up .
SuavePlaya
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Caped just believe people that reasons with your own logic even if they have 1000 rep points. If it doesnt make any sense to you don't let it sink in. Everybody has a different style of doing things and what works for them.
Interceptor
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CC is the master self flagellator.
He truly knows how to masterfully destroy any self confidence he can possibly have in himself.
In fact, he 'lounges around' just to let his nefarious mind turn into a massive dynamo of self loathing, self doubt, and misery.
Way to go,CC.
CC, you are your own worst enemy.
At some point you will stop smashing your head against the wall.
Unfortunately, you're not getting any younger, and you cant manufacture more time, so alas, you may be on your death bed before you finally let go of all this self sabotage.
He truly knows how to masterfully destroy any self confidence he can possibly have in himself.
In fact, he 'lounges around' just to let his nefarious mind turn into a massive dynamo of self loathing, self doubt, and misery.
Way to go,CC.
CC, you are your own worst enemy.
At some point you will stop smashing your head against the wall.
Unfortunately, you're not getting any younger, and you cant manufacture more time, so alas, you may be on your death bed before you finally let go of all this self sabotage.
SharinganUser
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Here is the ironic thing I've found out in the last 2 years or so.
The LESS you know about women, the better.
In the martial arts, the more you think about a technique, the more time and energy it takes execute that very technique. If however you are just aware of what is going on around you, you can react alot faster and more effectively. It the same with women.
So one of the only thing you really "need" to know from this site or life in general.
If you see something you want, go for it.
The LESS you know about women, the better.
In the martial arts, the more you think about a technique, the more time and energy it takes execute that very technique. If however you are just aware of what is going on around you, you can react alot faster and more effectively. It the same with women.
So one of the only thing you really "need" to know from this site or life in general.
If you see something you want, go for it.
CapedCrusader08
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I guess what I have really wanted is to change and become the person I want to be,but I have a hard time doing it. I think it is caused due to depression. I mean,I watch and read about all these guy's who have changed they're lives,and yet I haven't. And listening to that negative inner voice. I have to change that. I have to take the steps to undo it.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.