"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Read to much into things.

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Alrite...me and my girlfriend of 2 months went to the movies tonite, everything was good. She layed her head on my shoulder held hands etc. Although all night I could tell she just looked a bit drained.

When I went to her house to drop her off(she lives with her mom). She usually keeps me outside till her mom makes her come inside. Well we tounged kissed for about 5 seconds. Then she was like, "I really dont wanna do this right now." I said what do you mean? And she said that she was tired and didn't feel good, plus that she started today. Then she told me that she would call me tommorow...

I dunno...This isn't really like a first date so its not anything I HAVE to do. Maybe I read to much into stuff and she is happy with me.

What do you guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sometimes, people are just stressed and want to be left alone. Still, she's not communicating with you. Let this case rest, but if the behavior reoccurs, comfort her and open her up to get some info flow going.
 
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Relax.
 
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Should of taken her to the park, and just relaxed together. Give her a massage or someting of the nature, she was probebly a bit down.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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