Ok, heres the story. I met this girl a few weeks ago through a friend. We really liked eachother from the beginnign and she was giving me major signs. B4 the night was over she asked for my number and i got hers as well. The next day she even drove over her other "friend's" house, but it was really just to see me. Anyways, the night after that, which was a monday, i called her up and asked her if she would like to hang out when she had soem free time. Right away she asked what i was doing that upcoming weekend. So we made plans for that sunday. A few days pass, and i try calling her on friday to see how she was. She nvr answered. Turns out she nvr answered or returned my phone calls. About 4 in total over three days. So a week goes by and i see her the following weekend. SHe was pretty nice to me and tried to flirt a lil, but i was kinda cold to her, which stopped her a lil. Anyways, its about 3 weeks later and i havent talked to her and i really wanna see where this thing will/could go. What should i do? call her to see whats up or what? ANd when i speak to her, what should i talk about? SHould i mention her flaking?
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Michele l'Arcangelo
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since you've called her a few times... i'll give you the right to call again and leave a message...
make it a nice message and right to the point... don't say some stupid **** as if you've been dating her for a months.
i'd do something like "hey kid... its blah blah... i thought id just call once more to see if you'd want to get together to do <something>... call me back... loveto hear from ya. bye"
or something like that.
if she doesnt call back... move on... she has.
if she answers... make sure you weren't expecting an answering machine... and know what your plan is... short and sweet then bye.
^^^same thing if she calls you back
make it a nice message and right to the point... don't say some stupid **** as if you've been dating her for a months.
i'd do something like "hey kid... its blah blah... i thought id just call once more to see if you'd want to get together to do <something>... call me back... loveto hear from ya. bye"
or something like that.
if she doesnt call back... move on... she has.
if she answers... make sure you weren't expecting an answering machine... and know what your plan is... short and sweet then bye.
^^^same thing if she calls you back
Capt.Jack Sparrow
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Honestly... I see this thing going nowhere if its been a few weeks since you last talked to her, the flings over.
Atleast for her
Move on.
But hey feel free to be my guest if you want to prove me wrong.
Atleast for her
Move on.
But hey feel free to be my guest if you want to prove me wrong.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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doesnt hurt to call, you wont see her ever again to feel "embarassment" of rejection or you might even get a chance again... but if you havent made a move since i gave you a reply... thats been even longer...
better make a move
better make a move