"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Read this, its funny...

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Zaraza

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So I go to a close friends birthday (we fooled around before). We went drunk karaoke singing. It was fun. It was a big group so that night after everyone is leaving the house. I say "so you gonna follow me home tonight have some fun like last time".... we fooled around last time with alcohol. She says not tonight. Then she texts me saying she doesnt wanna do anything with me. LOL. I didnt mind cuz i didnt really care. My reply to her was "If you'd like to have fun come by, no worries". She texts me some long ass text, i just reply with a good night. three days later i get a text from her around 9pm, it says "im bored, wanna drink?"

This just is funny to me, dont know why. What do you guys think? Let the Sosuave crew, analyze this to the depths of the deep blue sea.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mtlwlu

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shes bored and wants to drink. if something happens something happens, dont try to hard.
 
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Never try to analyze emotions. she wasn't in the mood-maybe she is now. Unless there is a large pattern to work with,analyzing women is like analyzing the weather.
 
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I've actually met women who just like to get drunk and ****.

They might not show any sexual attraction to you while sober, but 4 or 5 beers later, they are all over you. Or maybe they do show sexual attraction: "I want to drink with you" could mean "I want to get drunk and have sex with you"

In the end:

Drinking = An excuse.

Don't argue with it, don't rationalize it. Just accept the tang. And if things go sour between you two, give her an AA pamphlet.
 
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