"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Ok the other day me and my buddy were at a club. There were a few good looking women around, mostly in there little groups with there friends.

I am the kind of guy that will cold approach. Doesn't mean it always works out, but I always try to cold approach. So I talked to a couple of girls, nothing really spectacular and the whole time I was talking I noticed my buddy was sitting over there on his stool not saying a word.

He was just nursing his beer minding his own business. So I asked him why he wasn't talking to any girls.

He told me that it is "better to remain silent and thought a fool, then to open it and remove all doubt."

What do you think of this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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B-Real said:
Ok the other day me and my buddy were at a club. There were a few good looking women around, mostly in there little groups with there friends.

I am the kind of guy that will cold approach. Doesn't mean it always works out, but I always try to cold approach. So I talked to a couple of girls, nothing really spectacular and the whole time I was talking I noticed my buddy was sitting over there on his stool not saying a word.

He was just nursing his beer minding his own business. So I asked him why he wasn't talking to any girls.

He told me that it is "better to remain silent and thought a fool, then to open it and remove all doubt."

What do you think of this?

That's a famous quote (Hemmingway or Twain maybey?)
Anyway, it's completley ridiculous to apply it to the pick-up scene.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
That's a famous quote (Hemmingway or Twain maybey?)
Anyway, it's completley ridiculous to apply it to the pick-up scene.
Unless everything you say makes you sound like a fool.
 

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Dongfu said:
Unless everything you say makes you sound like a fool.
The only way you are going to forge yourself into something other than a fool in a social arena, is by getting out and playing the field. That quote sounds like a pathetic excuse covered in chocolate.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Only a fool would use a quote like that to make it seem like he isn't a fool.

I got a better quote for your friend:

"Better to have tried and failed than to never have tried at all, for we learn best from our mistakes."
 

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Danger said:
He's using that quote as a buffer to avoid feeling rejected.
:up:

Plus he was using the quote out of context.
 

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Here's a good response quote to that quote.

You miss 100% of the shots you dont take.
wayne gretsky :rockon: :rockon: :rockon:
 
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