“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Re-Learned a Lesson about being a DJ

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DoctorLW

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So I decided I was talking to my girlfriend too much and started cutting her off a little more and more, despite the fact that I don't have a job right now and talking to her is one of the few things that entertains me. I just decided we talked too much.

At first nothing changed. But now I think she is starting to fight back by playing games of her own. The only way I can respond is by cutting her off even more. Luckily this will come to a quick resolution next Wednesday (when I next see her), but I've learned a valuable lesson (one that I've learned many times but forgotten): don't take the advice of this site so literally. Now that I have more free time and spend time on this site, I somehow forgot that again.

Just thought I'd pass that on for many here to remember. It's all about the mindset. The "rules" are just to help get you started, they are not a code you should strictly adhere by.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ready123

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don't confuse attraction game advice (which is most of this site) with LTR advice

you wanna make yourself scarce to attract a girl who doesn't know you by conveying you're not needy, that makes sense. but you're in an LTR - you start disappearing for no reason and it means you don't care about her
 
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Yeah. I haven't been in an LTR before, at least not one where I actually cared about the girl (I dated one girl for a year and a half but cheated on her 6-7 times until I finally broke up with her). Prior to this I had been more of a ONS guy with a few short relationships. I think I'm a little old for that now though, so I guess I'm starting to learn how do handle an LTR on my own. There isn't much info on this site regarding LTR's unfortunately.
 
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No there isn't much for LTR's specifically but the attraction stuff is the same for a women that your in a LTR with vs a ONS. The most commmon problem I see with LTR's is that guys tend to start acting AFC in LTR's and as a result lose attraction and the interest of the girl.

Girls seem to be natural players, they do it without thinking about it as much as we do. This is evident by her game playing as soon as you cut down the contact.
 
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