BackInTheGame78
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Hmm...I wouldn't mind testing this out and seeing what happens. Any idea what the texts consists of without me having to go buy the thing?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Re-kindle old relationship ...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Aesthetix29
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Update - broke the ice built rapport and asked her on a date to which she accepted 
Aesthetix29
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The thing is she keeps messaging me ... About silly stuff ... What you up2?/bored at work yada yada ... I don't like replying too these type of messages due to my experience things die down massively when this happens. How do I upload images off my iPhone here? Id like some advice, and it would be easier to show you? How do I turn a iPhone pic too an img URL? Is there an app? Thanks