"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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BackInTheGame78

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Then look up Michael Fiore's "Text Your Ex Back". But if you're going to do stuff like this, buy one and do the work. I have buds that have done this stuff. All he 'programs' amount to the same thing.

May God have mercy on your soul.
Hmm...I wouldn't mind testing this out and seeing what happens. Any idea what the texts consists of without me having to go buy the thing?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Update - broke the ice built rapport and asked her on a date to which she accepted ;)
 

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The thing is she keeps messaging me ... About silly stuff ... What you up2?/bored at work yada yada ... I don't like replying too these type of messages due to my experience things die down massively when this happens. How do I upload images off my iPhone here? Id like some advice, and it would be easier to show you? How do I turn a iPhone pic too an img URL? Is there an app? Thanks
 
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