"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Razor Burn Remebies...

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Sup All...

Was wondering what tips any1 had w. preventing razor burn.

Creames, aftershaves, techniques... lets hear'em...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cold water.

put out that fire!
 

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I used to suffer with this real bad. What worked for me was a combination of things. Using a 2-3 bladed razor. Make sure it's clean for every use and replace it after several uses before it gets blunt.

Secondly, before shaving, apply hot water to your face with a flannel in order to open your pores and soften stubble. This makes a big difference and should reduce the "pulling" when you shave.

Also, try using a shaving gel as opposed to foam. Apply cold water to your face after you shave and lastly, moisturise regularly after shaving.

Oh yes, take your time when shaving too and rinse razor after every stroke!
 

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I don't get any razor burn with my electric razor, and the shave is just as close.
 

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another tip is to shave near the end of, or right after, a hot shower. the steam will have opened your pores pretty good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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In the morning, after I shower, I put on this sweet ass cream (Gillette Series Gel, 198g), and shave with a 3 blade. It is so hard to cut myself!

Besides, burn is caused by the razor stripping off a bit of the lively skin, so the combination of the shower/gel/razor, shaving daily and taking it easy might help.
 

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I put an astringent on my face after I shave to prevent razor burn and breakouts. Witch Hazel works well and is ridiculously cheap.

Also, your shaving method is important. As others have noted, using a fresh blade right after a warm shower makes it much, much easier.
 

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I shave my head 3-4 times a week and what I've learned is to start with a good hot shower. The steam will help open your pores and the follicle won't be so tough. Also, don't skimp on a good shave gel (foams only clog you up). Aveeno makes a very well rounded gel. Most importantly USE A 3-4 BLADE RAZOR! Please don't think a bic razor is anywhere near the same quality as Nitro or Quattro.

But the trick that really helps, Witch hazel. Right outta the shower. keeps away bumps and seals in moisture. Follw that up with a good moisturizer ( I use Skin Milk).

There ya go, my routine. Any questions let me know.
 

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Good Advice All.

Guess I'll check out one of the Gels, as well as some witch hazel.
Whats the scoop w. that though? Use it as an aftershave?

As far as multiple blades... got the fusion, so alls good on that front. lol

Also how about the dudes in here that shave daily?
You find that that helps?

Scared to hit it like that... lol, I think my sh!t would ignite, not lookin pretty.
I like rockin' my dirty stubble look anyway, but just wondered if that method beats the clock or anything?

SuaveOn'
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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chicks at strip clubs suggest you use white stick deodorant in areas that are prone to razor burn as soon as you shave.
 

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Guess I'll check out one of the Gels, as well as some witch hazel.
Whats the scoop w. that though? Use it as an aftershave?
Yeah, just splash a little on after you finish shaving. It feels fairly soothing to me.
 
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