"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Razor Burn Remebies...

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Sup All...

Was wondering what tips any1 had w. preventing razor burn.

Creames, aftershaves, techniques... lets hear'em...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cold water.

put out that fire!
 

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I used to suffer with this real bad. What worked for me was a combination of things. Using a 2-3 bladed razor. Make sure it's clean for every use and replace it after several uses before it gets blunt.

Secondly, before shaving, apply hot water to your face with a flannel in order to open your pores and soften stubble. This makes a big difference and should reduce the "pulling" when you shave.

Also, try using a shaving gel as opposed to foam. Apply cold water to your face after you shave and lastly, moisturise regularly after shaving.

Oh yes, take your time when shaving too and rinse razor after every stroke!
 

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I don't get any razor burn with my electric razor, and the shave is just as close.
 

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another tip is to shave near the end of, or right after, a hot shower. the steam will have opened your pores pretty good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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In the morning, after I shower, I put on this sweet ass cream (Gillette Series Gel, 198g), and shave with a 3 blade. It is so hard to cut myself!

Besides, burn is caused by the razor stripping off a bit of the lively skin, so the combination of the shower/gel/razor, shaving daily and taking it easy might help.
 

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I put an astringent on my face after I shave to prevent razor burn and breakouts. Witch Hazel works well and is ridiculously cheap.

Also, your shaving method is important. As others have noted, using a fresh blade right after a warm shower makes it much, much easier.
 

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I shave my head 3-4 times a week and what I've learned is to start with a good hot shower. The steam will help open your pores and the follicle won't be so tough. Also, don't skimp on a good shave gel (foams only clog you up). Aveeno makes a very well rounded gel. Most importantly USE A 3-4 BLADE RAZOR! Please don't think a bic razor is anywhere near the same quality as Nitro or Quattro.

But the trick that really helps, Witch hazel. Right outta the shower. keeps away bumps and seals in moisture. Follw that up with a good moisturizer ( I use Skin Milk).

There ya go, my routine. Any questions let me know.
 

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Solid!
Good Advice All.

Guess I'll check out one of the Gels, as well as some witch hazel.
Whats the scoop w. that though? Use it as an aftershave?

As far as multiple blades... got the fusion, so alls good on that front. lol

Also how about the dudes in here that shave daily?
You find that that helps?

Scared to hit it like that... lol, I think my sh!t would ignite, not lookin pretty.
I like rockin' my dirty stubble look anyway, but just wondered if that method beats the clock or anything?

SuaveOn'
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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chicks at strip clubs suggest you use white stick deodorant in areas that are prone to razor burn as soon as you shave.
 

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Guess I'll check out one of the Gels, as well as some witch hazel.
Whats the scoop w. that though? Use it as an aftershave?
Yeah, just splash a little on after you finish shaving. It feels fairly soothing to me.
 
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