"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Razor Burn Remebies...

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Sup All...

Was wondering what tips any1 had w. preventing razor burn.

Creames, aftershaves, techniques... lets hear'em...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cold water.

put out that fire!
 

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I used to suffer with this real bad. What worked for me was a combination of things. Using a 2-3 bladed razor. Make sure it's clean for every use and replace it after several uses before it gets blunt.

Secondly, before shaving, apply hot water to your face with a flannel in order to open your pores and soften stubble. This makes a big difference and should reduce the "pulling" when you shave.

Also, try using a shaving gel as opposed to foam. Apply cold water to your face after you shave and lastly, moisturise regularly after shaving.

Oh yes, take your time when shaving too and rinse razor after every stroke!
 

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I don't get any razor burn with my electric razor, and the shave is just as close.
 

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another tip is to shave near the end of, or right after, a hot shower. the steam will have opened your pores pretty good.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In the morning, after I shower, I put on this sweet ass cream (Gillette Series Gel, 198g), and shave with a 3 blade. It is so hard to cut myself!

Besides, burn is caused by the razor stripping off a bit of the lively skin, so the combination of the shower/gel/razor, shaving daily and taking it easy might help.
 

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I put an astringent on my face after I shave to prevent razor burn and breakouts. Witch Hazel works well and is ridiculously cheap.

Also, your shaving method is important. As others have noted, using a fresh blade right after a warm shower makes it much, much easier.
 

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I shave my head 3-4 times a week and what I've learned is to start with a good hot shower. The steam will help open your pores and the follicle won't be so tough. Also, don't skimp on a good shave gel (foams only clog you up). Aveeno makes a very well rounded gel. Most importantly USE A 3-4 BLADE RAZOR! Please don't think a bic razor is anywhere near the same quality as Nitro or Quattro.

But the trick that really helps, Witch hazel. Right outta the shower. keeps away bumps and seals in moisture. Follw that up with a good moisturizer ( I use Skin Milk).

There ya go, my routine. Any questions let me know.
 

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Solid!
Good Advice All.

Guess I'll check out one of the Gels, as well as some witch hazel.
Whats the scoop w. that though? Use it as an aftershave?

As far as multiple blades... got the fusion, so alls good on that front. lol

Also how about the dudes in here that shave daily?
You find that that helps?

Scared to hit it like that... lol, I think my sh!t would ignite, not lookin pretty.
I like rockin' my dirty stubble look anyway, but just wondered if that method beats the clock or anything?

SuaveOn'
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chicks at strip clubs suggest you use white stick deodorant in areas that are prone to razor burn as soon as you shave.
 

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Guess I'll check out one of the Gels, as well as some witch hazel.
Whats the scoop w. that though? Use it as an aftershave?
Yeah, just splash a little on after you finish shaving. It feels fairly soothing to me.
 
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