What sort of things should someone look at to try and rate their own attractiveness on a purely physical level. (looks, face, body whatever else). I read somewhere a good way is too see how many girls give you eye contact and/or smiles when you're out in public. What do you guys thing? Legit or not?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rating your own attractiveness.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
I dunno, I think I look better now than I did 4 months ago. I'm usually too wrapped up in life to notice whos looking at me but I don't think I ever got that many looks. Of course, thats not a very good way to judge. One night I went downtown with a friend and we were both dressed decently. I got looks from EVERY hot girl as I passed. Most of em had bfs and they were still checking me out, so I don't think that's too terribly accurate.
Of course, I might just be good looking as hell.
Of course, I might just be good looking as hell.
I think that they said something about woman like men with dark skin, a square jawline, no wrinkles below the eyes and between the mouth and the nose, no fat on the face(no chubby cheeks) and a big forehead or somethin but I don't know, thats just things I remember.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can purchase yohimburn.........it basically allows ur body to metabolize those hard to lose fat areas... for some people the face, some the stomach, some the legs......apparently it works bt Ive never tried it.
It costs around 100 after all those crazy fees and sorts but the internet says it works, so give it a shot if ur like 10% bf and ur face isnt looking trimmed.
Adding some sun on ur face will work miralces as dark skin appears to enhance curves and cuts, giving you a more 'cut' look.
Characteristics of the male "Sexy face" in the comparison to the "unsexy face":
* Browner skin
* Narrower facial shape
* Less fat
* Fuller and more symmetrical lips
* Darker eye brows
* More and darker lashes
* Upper half of the face broader in relation to the lower
* Higher cheek bones
* Prominent lower jaw
* More prominent chin
* No receding brows
* Thinner lids
* No wrinkles between nose and corner of the mouth
Yo that stuff looks pretty good yo I got some info about it on this message board
http://www.irontrybe.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1871
penkitten
Master Don Juan
why bother? you arent going to date yourself..
if your current "look" isnt cutting it, try something new until it does.
attractivness is in the eye of the beholder.
if your current "look" isnt cutting it, try something new until it does.
attractivness is in the eye of the beholder.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I actually know the creator/owners of Yohimburn...They are pretty good guys who have been around for YEARS on many bodybuilding boards. I believe that they have made many advancements since the original yohimburn.
Check out anabolic fitness, thats their site.
My mom likes that stuff, I myself dont use it.
Check out anabolic fitness, thats their site.
My mom likes that stuff, I myself dont use it.
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I'm so beautiful that I can get a hardon just by looking at myself.
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Girls don't only give you eye contact and approach invitations in public just because you look good. They can sense your confidence, dominance and social skills by your body language and by the way you interact with others. A socially skilled guy or girl can peg a person as cool or as insecure from a mile away.
I have a wing who looks like a male model. Six foot four, good body, perfect face, great hair. He seriously looks like an Abercrombie and Fitch model. But, he barely ever gets eye contact because girls can sense he's insecure so easily. This overrides his good looks.
I have another wing who's a top-form PUA, and he gets AI all the time. This is despite the fact that he doesn't look good at all. So, while looks are a factor in how much eye contact you get in public, it's mostly determined by your inner game and confidence.
-Dan
I have a wing who looks like a male model. Six foot four, good body, perfect face, great hair. He seriously looks like an Abercrombie and Fitch model. But, he barely ever gets eye contact because girls can sense he's insecure so easily. This overrides his good looks.
I have another wing who's a top-form PUA, and he gets AI all the time. This is despite the fact that he doesn't look good at all. So, while looks are a factor in how much eye contact you get in public, it's mostly determined by your inner game and confidence.
-Dan
MidnightResistance
Senior Don Juan
Confidence plays a huge part in it all.
Just look at Jack Black. He's short, fat and ugly, but he has amazing confidence and gets his (un)fair share of hotties
Just look at Jack Black. He's short, fat and ugly, but he has amazing confidence and gets his (un)fair share of hotties
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.