Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rating your own attractiveness.

BlahUgh

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What sort of things should someone look at to try and rate their own attractiveness on a purely physical level. (looks, face, body whatever else). I read somewhere a good way is too see how many girls give you eye contact and/or smiles when you're out in public. What do you guys thing? Legit or not?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dadmonson

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THurs a sight somewhere that I posted here about what woman find attractive in male faces and what they don't
 

Big Eee Zee

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I dunno, I think I look better now than I did 4 months ago. I'm usually too wrapped up in life to notice whos looking at me but I don't think I ever got that many looks. Of course, thats not a very good way to judge. One night I went downtown with a friend and we were both dressed decently. I got looks from EVERY hot girl as I passed. Most of em had bfs and they were still checking me out, so I don't think that's too terribly accurate.


Of course, I might just be good looking as hell. :)
 

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I think that they said something about woman like men with dark skin, a square jawline, no wrinkles below the eyes and between the mouth and the nose, no fat on the face(no chubby cheeks) and a big forehead or somethin but I don't know, thats just things I remember.
 

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Here you go. This is the mask plastic surgeons use in determing how to improve faces. Read the site and print out the mask and compare it to your face to see how attractive you are.
Link
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dadmonson

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Originally posted by Maybnoob
Here you go. This is the mask plastic surgeons use in determing how to improve faces. Read the site and print out the mask and compare it to your face to see how attractive you are.
Link
That sheit mad complicated man.
 

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Nah just print it out and put it on top of a picture of yourself thats the right size and see if everything fits. If everything fits then your universally attractive
 

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Main Point: Loss your fat, and you'll become attractive. ITs that simple.


Dont believe me check out that rating scale for conformity to the face...most of the subpar faces are fatter.
 

dadmonson

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Originally posted by Kaparski
Main Point: Loss your fat, and you'll become attractive. ITs that simple.


Dont believe me check out that rating scale for conformity to the face...most of the subpar faces are fatter.
Yo wat is the quikest and best way to loose the fat from your face?
 

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Originally posted by dadmonson
Yo wat is the quikest and best way to loose the fat from your face?
the same way you lose fat anywhere else

diet and exercise
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Fatality
the same way you lose fat anywhere else

diet and exercise
You can purchase yohimburn.........it basically allows ur body to metabolize those hard to lose fat areas... for some people the face, some the stomach, some the legs......apparently it works bt Ive never tried it.


It costs around 100 after all those crazy fees and sorts but the internet says it works, so give it a shot if ur like 10% bf and ur face isnt looking trimmed.

Adding some sun on ur face will work miralces as dark skin appears to enhance curves and cuts, giving you a more 'cut' look.


Characteristics of the male "Sexy face" in the comparison to the "unsexy face":

* Browner skin
* Narrower facial shape
* Less fat
* Fuller and more symmetrical lips
* Darker eye brows
* More and darker lashes
* Upper half of the face broader in relation to the lower
* Higher cheek bones
* Prominent lower jaw
* More prominent chin
* No receding brows
* Thinner lids
* No wrinkles between nose and corner of the mouth
 

dadmonson

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Originally posted by Kaparski
You can purchase yohimburn.........it basically allows ur body to metabolize those hard to lose fat areas... for some people the face, some the stomach, some the legs......apparently it works bt Ive never tried it.


It costs around 100 after all those crazy fees and sorts but the internet says it works, so give it a shot if ur like 10% bf and ur face isnt looking trimmed.

Yo that stuff looks pretty good yo I got some info about it on this message board

http://www.irontrybe.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1871
 

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why bother? you arent going to date yourself..

if your current "look" isnt cutting it, try something new until it does.

attractivness is in the eye of the beholder.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I actually know the creator/owners of Yohimburn...They are pretty good guys who have been around for YEARS on many bodybuilding boards. I believe that they have made many advancements since the original yohimburn.

Check out anabolic fitness, thats their site.

My mom likes that stuff, I myself dont use it.

Originally posted by Kaparski
You can purchase yohimburn.........it basically allows ur body to metabolize those hard to lose fat areas... for some people the face, some the stomach, some the legs......apparently it works bt Ive never tried it.


It costs around 100 after all those crazy fees and sorts but the internet says it works, so give it a shot if ur like 10% bf and ur face isnt looking trimmed.

Adding some sun on ur face will work miralces as dark skin appears to enhance curves and cuts, giving you a more 'cut' look.


Characteristics of the male "Sexy face" in the comparison to the "unsexy face":

* Browner skin
* Narrower facial shape
* Less fat
* Fuller and more symmetrical lips
* Darker eye brows
* More and darker lashes
* Upper half of the face broader in relation to the lower
* Higher cheek bones
* Prominent lower jaw
* More prominent chin
* No receding brows
* Thinner lids
* No wrinkles between nose and corner of the mouth
 

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I'm so beautiful that I can get a hardon just by looking at myself.
 

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Girls don't only give you eye contact and approach invitations in public just because you look good. They can sense your confidence, dominance and social skills by your body language and by the way you interact with others. A socially skilled guy or girl can peg a person as cool or as insecure from a mile away.

I have a wing who looks like a male model. Six foot four, good body, perfect face, great hair. He seriously looks like an Abercrombie and Fitch model. But, he barely ever gets eye contact because girls can sense he's insecure so easily. This overrides his good looks.

I have another wing who's a top-form PUA, and he gets AI all the time. This is despite the fact that he doesn't look good at all. So, while looks are a factor in how much eye contact you get in public, it's mostly determined by your inner game and confidence.

-Dan
 

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Confidence plays a huge part in it all.

Just look at Jack Black. He's short, fat and ugly, but he has amazing confidence and gets his (un)fair share of hotties
 

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girls cant sense insecurity or **** like that im tired of hearing that, are they gods? no wonder we guys worry to much what they say.
:D off topic.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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