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Houston's biggest upside is that it isn't Austin or Dallas. Female attitudes there tend to be better than the other two cities. The offset to that is that women's looks are worse, mainly due to higher rates of obesity.

Houston sprawls a lot. Does everyone live that far from each other? I'm wondering if Houston is unique among sprawling Sun Belt metro areas.



Why recommend a sausage fest? I've heard the female talent pool in Austin is bad in terms of attitudes. There's a big SJW/careerist/feminist segment there.
Austin is young. I don't have a major problem with careerist women that you run into in major cities. Actually, they tend to be better looking, less tats, not obese, never married, less single moms, etc. The SJW women are usually easier to spot as well with the way they dress.

You're thinking because of OLD and how a lot of the women on there are liberal. Depends on the age. I'm 38 and most women while openly liberal will still date a guy if he's conservative.

The fact is IF you want to date, have relationships you must come to the reality most women are not conservative. Stats show this. If you will only date right wing women you're going to be lonely.
 

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Austin is young. I don't have a major problem with careerist women that you run into in major cities. Actually, they tend to be better looking, less tats, not obese, never married, less single moms, etc. The SJW women are usually easier to spot as well with the way they dress.

You're thinking because of OLD and how a lot of the women on there are liberal. Depends on the age. I'm 38 and most women while openly liberal will still date a guy if he's conservative.

The fact is IF you want to date, have relationships you must come to the reality most women are not conservative. Stats show this. If you will only date right wing women you're going to be lonely.
That's why smaller towns are where it's at. More conservative women.
 

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I remember a woman messaged me on Bumble one time and somehow the conversation got political, and she basically said it was a deal breaker if I was a Trump supporter. I said oh well and moved on. In this day and age, having similar political views is probably a good idea just because how divided each side is, and you're not probably gonna agree on a lot of things in life in general. Not a deal breaker, but I still would rather be with someone long term who shares my political views. Short term fling I guess doesn't matter too much since the topic probably wouldn't even get brought up.
 

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That's why smaller towns are where it's at. More conservative women.
Smaller dating pool, higher obesity, lower education attainment, more tats, etc. Especially places like Missouri, Florida, Arkansas, Georgia, etc.

I think a better compromise would be suburban. A number of the suburban areas of the St. Louis area are more moderate and counties like St. Charles County, and parts of St. Louis County are Republican. Away from the college campuses even if the suburban woman isn't a conservative they will still not be as radical as a SJW.

Here in FL the rural areas the women are hideous whales. I'd take a liberal, in shape woman over a heavy set conservative woman.
 

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I remember a woman messaged me on Bumble one time and somehow the conversation got political, and she basically said it was a deal breaker if I was a Trump supporter. I said oh well and moved on. In this day and age, having similar political views is probably a good idea just because how divided each side is, and you're not probably gonna agree on a lot of things in life in general. Not a deal breaker, but I still would rather be with someone long term who shares my political views. Short term fling I guess doesn't matter too much since the topic probably wouldn't even get brought up.
I agree. But talking about politics with others is a complete waste of time.

At the end of the conversation, you're still going to believe what you believe....and the others are still going to believe what they believe.
 

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Smaller dating pool, higher obesity, lower education attainment, more tats, etc. Especially places like Missouri, Florida, Arkansas, Georgia, etc.

I think a better compromise would be suburban. A number of the suburban areas of the St. Louis area are more moderate and counties like St. Charles County, and parts of St. Louis County are Republican. Away from the college campuses even if the suburban woman isn't a conservative they will still not be as radical as a SJW.

Here in FL the rural areas the women are hideous whales. I'd take a liberal, in shape woman over a heavy set conservative woman.
I'll take a country girl. She's just better than any other chick out there.
 

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I remember a woman messaged me on Bumble one time and somehow the conversation got political, and she basically said it was a deal breaker if I was a Trump supporter. I said oh well and moved on. In this day and age, having similar political views is probably a good idea just because how divided each side is, and you're not probably gonna agree on a lot of things in life in general. Not a deal breaker, but I still would rather be with someone long term who shares my political views. Short term fling I guess doesn't matter too much since the topic probably wouldn't even get brought up.
Bumble and Tinder and to an extent Match are the worst sites for that. At least in my part of Florida I notice Match along with Bumble are the two worst, Match especially.

The good thing is when you get our ages the women are typically less radical. Even if they're a democrat they will be more moderate and tolerant of your views unlike a 25 year old bimbo.

In the St. Louis area outside of West County like Ladue, or by the colleges, the women shouldn't be a problem. Most of Missouri except for St. Louis City, North County, inner parts of West County like Ladue, Columbia, and Kansas City are all conservative now and deep red.

You won't find many liberals in Missouri.
 

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I live in St Charles County now. We're considered redneck country to the people in St Louis City and County and I'm proud of that. I don't care. My girlfriend is originally from St Francois County which is DEFINITELY more redneck country! Small town girls usually have bigger hearts!
 

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I live in St Charles County now. We're considered redneck country to the people in St Louis City and County and I'm proud of that. I don't care. My girlfriend is originally from St Francois County which is DEFINITELY more redneck country! Small town girls usually have bigger hearts!
St. Charles is rapidly growing and suburban. Many are coming from St. Louis County and moving there. That is why St. Louis County has become less Republican and St. Charles more. Republicans from Stl county are move to St. Charles. Stl county 30 years ago was a reliable Republican county at one time. I've never considered it rednecks. That's usually Jefferson County.

Don't discount northern Jeffco. Southern Jefferson and the northern half are totally different. Places like Fenton or Imperial have blue collar workers who make decent money. Many of the young women are not bad looking in parts like the Fenton area or Imperial. I mean, they're not white trash.
 

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Not to get off topic, but what part of the St Louis area did you live and why did you move to Florida?
 

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was in Vegas and Miami for 3 months each this past year. I had a much better time dating in Vegas than Miami. Miami is beautiful, but it's also a weird place in general. And OLD is terrible there.

Still plenty of hot women in and out of Vegas on a daily basis plus the locals who are all most Cali transplants. Also, is actually cheap off the strip. You are only talking about the strip. The actual city is not expensive, especially compared to the Bay area.
Right,I’m in Vegas right now. Hot chicks everywhere, The sh1t about Vegas being expensive only applies if you live across the street from the casino or any other high end tourist part of the city
Biggest problem here for me is that being a black man ,the Asians seem to be rude as fvck and pretty dominant throughout the city of Vegas .
can’t speak for any other parts of Nevada .

When I lived in Atlanta ,I was nailing the most women I ever nailed in my life .
A few white ,few mixed ,most were black women

got laid in ClarksvilleTN pretty often as well .

haven’t been to Florida or the east coast yet , but Florida is most likely the next stop

Toughest state to get laid(for me) is my home state California.
I blame this on the town I’m in ,if I lived in LA I would most likely slay very easily but I’m 45 mins out and haven’t been to LA in years
it’s very diverse and black men can lay exotic women easier I feel like than almost any other town in California although never been to Northern California nor do I have a desire to visit
 

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Not to get off topic, but what part of the St Louis area did you live and why did you move to Florida?
South County area, right by the mall. I actually like the area. I55 close by and you had the mall, major shopping, everything close by. My moms side lives in FL. From Stl but lived in FL since 1980 and we lived in FL for 10 years when I was younger. My parents wanted to move back to FL so I decided to go along.

The demographics in this area of FL is MUCH different than St. Louis. Much older. Like OLD up in Stl I put in my old zipcode and within 20 miles all sorts of good looking women. Down here the opposite. Also, everything is a far drive. Stl everything you need is within 30 miles. Longer than that and you're deep in the Ozarks or cornfields in southern IL.

I like the women up in Missouri better. less stuck up and in the stl area less fat as well and more educated.
 

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Anyone familiar with the NYC area will know of Hoboken, NJ a.k.a Broboken.

Once a seedier working class town with a mafia underbelly, it's now a vibrant nightlife town with more liquor licenses per square mile than any other municipality in the US.

The night crowd is predominantly white 20-somethings just out of college with their first real job in NYC, living with roommates and essentially a continuation of the off-campus lifestyle. As alluded to in its unofficial nickname, nightlife can be bro-heavy, with some packed sports bars containing only a few women. However, the sheer ubiquity of nightlife venues, ranging from sports bars to dives to upscale lounges, makes it a good alternative to going out in Manhattan. Plus, there tend to be hot women everywhere.
Used to work in Hoboken and you're dead on in your description. For anybody who's never been there, you'd be amazed at how diverse it is considering how small it is
 

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Right,I’m in Vegas right now. Hot chicks everywhere, The sh1t about Vegas being expensive only applies if you live across the street from the casino or any other high end tourist part of the city
Biggest problem here for me is that being a black man ,the Asians seem to be rude as fvck and pretty dominant throughout the city of Vegas .
can’t speak for any other parts of Nevada .

When I lived in Atlanta ,I was nailing the most women I ever nailed in my life .
A few white ,few mixed ,most were black women

got laid in ClarksvilleTN pretty often as well .

haven’t been to Florida or the east coast yet , but Florida is most likely the next stop

Toughest state to get laid(for me) is my home state California.
I blame this on the town I’m in ,if I lived in LA I would most likely slay very easily but I’m 45 mins out and haven’t been to LA in years
it’s very diverse and black men can lay exotic women easier I feel like than almost any other town in California although never been to Northern California nor do I have a desire to visit

Atlanta must be a paradise for single black men man lol. I see black dudes at the clubs literally just stand there and having women approaching them left and right. I do okay there...not great. I love places like johnny hideaways in buckhead though and the buckhead saloon. Suntrust park is fun too as well as midtown ofcourse.

Yeah the local Asians there can be tricky actually in Vegas. They were not that easy for me and most of them work around the clock. I did lay 2 beautiful Cambodian and Phlipina chicks there though from bumble dating app. Slayed a hot Russian as well from that app. The big clubs on the strip there are still good for pulling women. Hakkasan in MGM is good....so is Omni tuesday nights in Ceasars.
 

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Wow. I thought OLD was bad on the opposite coast over here. So Miami OLD is bad too? WTF.

Too much competition maybe? Was not good for me. Worst of any big city ive been too.
 

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You would think Vegas would obviously be the best place for hookups, one night stands, etc etc because a lot of people are there on vacation from a land far far away and are getting away from their normal lives. Like the saying goes, what happens in Vegas...
 

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I remember a woman messaged me on Bumble one time and somehow the conversation got political, and she basically said it was a deal breaker if I was a Trump supporter. I said oh well and moved on. In this day and age, having similar political views is probably a good idea just because how divided each side is, and you're not probably gonna agree on a lot of things in life in general. Not a deal breaker, but I still would rather be with someone long term who shares my political views. Short term fling I guess doesn't matter too much since the topic probably wouldn't even get brought up.
That stuff has been happening on the swipe apps since the 2016 election cycle. Most women in real life would be much more reserved about that, even a lot of left leaning women. The majority of unmarried women under 50 are liberal.

If you’re interacting with a 30 year old, never married, childless woman in a major metropolitan area, odds are that she espouses a liberal political philosophy. This can be challenging for men because unmarried men have a wider range of political philosophies. I think that there would be big relational friction for conservative men with liberal women, which would be the most common difference in philosophies.

It’s common for women to shift their political ideologies from more liberal to more conservative upon marriage and especially when they have children.

Political ideology differences are going to be less of a thing in a short term fling.

I also try my best to avoid discussing politics with male friends that have significantly different viewpoints than I have. Like romantic interactions, it creates unnecessary issues.

Atlanta- pretty similar to Dallas in the uppidity vibe, but if you like black women then you will like it. The white women here are pretty average at best though.
I would like to start off by saying stay far away from Atlanta or any area near it (especially Buckhead, Alpharetta or Marietta.) The young women in the area are by far one of the most stuck-up, condescending women in the country in which they only value rich business men, guys who were in the right fraternities in college (usually an SEC/ACC school) or thug wannabes. If you come to the state and expect to pull women above a 5 or 6 then good luck and don't expect people to let you into their social circles.
@GaBrotha is likely describing how college educated white women behave in Atlanta. It seems like women with BA/BS degrees or higher in both Atlanta and Dallas are rather uppity. @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 even mentioned this element in Nashville as well.

I can't imagine black women having this attitude in Atlanta. Atlanta's single male- single female ratios look better than cities that are west of the Mississippi River mainly because of a surplus of black women in the area. I think if you're a white male mainly pursuing white females, Atlanta is going to be a similar experience to a Western Sun Belt city like Dallas or Phoenix.
 
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Austin is not a small conservative town lmao.
That stuff has been happening on the swipe apps since the 2016 election cycle. Most women in real life would be much more reserved about that, even a lot of left leaning women. The majority of unmarried women under 50 are liberal.

If you’re interacting with a 30 year old, never married, childless woman in a major metropolitan area, odds are that she espouses a liberal political philosophy. This can be challenging for men because unmarried men have a wider range of political philosophies. I think that there would be big relational friction for conservative men with liberal women, which would be the most common difference in philosophies.

It’s common for women to shift their political ideologies from more liberal to more conservative upon marriage and especially when they have children.

Political ideology differences are going to be less of a thing in a short term fling.

I also try my best to avoid discussing politics with male friends that have significantly different viewpoints than I have. Like romantic interactions, it creates unnecessary issues.





@GaBrotha is likely describing how college educated white women behave in Atlanta. It seems like women with BA/BS degrees or higher in both Atlanta and Dallas are rather uppity. @Jake_Gyllenhaal69 even mentioned this element in Nashville as well.

I can't imagine black women having this attitude in Atlanta. Atlanta's single male- single female ratios look better than cities that are west of the Mississippi River mainly because of a surplus of black women in the area. I think if you're a white male mainly pursuing white females, Atlanta is going to be a similar experience to a Western Sun Belt city like Dallas or Phoenix.
Atlanta women are notorious for being stuck up and snooty. Like I mentioned, avoid the white women here because they are the text book examples of 49ers lol
 
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