"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rate Your Game

Your Game?

  • 8-10 Killer

    Votes: 10 50.0%
  • 6-8 bare knuckle boxer

    Votes: 3 15.0%
  • 4-6 Lifting heavy in gym

    Votes: 5 25.0%
  • 1-4 freelance professional gamer

    Votes: 2 10.0%

  • Total voters
    20

HighResurrection

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So basically I wanted to find out what level of skill you have. Also I wanted to find out what are the sticking points for most people. So feel free to add categories. At the top is a skill that has the most value to you. As you go down the list the value of the skill should be less. Please include an area where you think you need most improvement.





HighRez



Body language: 7



I’m usually very conscious of making myself bigger when around women. I always take my hands out of my pockets. On dates I use this to my advantage very well. I’m sure I can improve speaking with my hands. Also I’m sure that I can improve my posture too.




Approach: 8

I rate my self really good in terms of approaching. Over the past 3 or 4 months I’ve really improved. In the past it was a big thing to approach a woman. I would never approach a group of women. Now I just focus positive thoughts on what I’m learning and it’s automatic. I’ll approach anyone anywhere. I think the area I need to improve is recognizing women’s body language. It’s not the worst thing to get a number from a girl who is rushing to work. For me I think it better to seek out girl who have time to have a conversation.




Rapport: 4

I think this is where I need to improve. Being valuable and rare doesn’t mean not taking the time to build a connection. From now on I’m going to spend 10min building rapport with “me too” statements. If they say they have to go, I’ll just tell them that I have to go.




So gentlemen let me know your top 3
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SamTheHobit

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real2 said:
My game is a 10. Your game is a 10. Everyones game here is a 10.

You are enough. Don't think otherwise. :rockon:

See hot girl? Approach.
agreed.
 

HighResurrection

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I agree everyone naturally has amazing game. What I'm getting at what areas do you need to work on? Micheal Jordan thought about where he needed to improve.
 

SamTheHobit

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My self image Is my only problem. My confidence is pretty good.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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I don't worry about rating myself, nor do I even consider it to be a game, or even target specific girls in an attempt to fvck them.

In my younger years I did do these things, but as time went by, I learnt what to say when I approached a hot girl.

Its far more important to me to be able to read the girls mind than it is for me to seduce her.

If you know what the signs of a girls level of attraction is towards you, it makes it easy to pick them up.

I can't be bothered trying to seduce a girl who doesn't desire me, when I can tell by the body language of the ones who do and there are enough of them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Szyzzlin

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Hahaha... I think rating your game is a funny thing!

It takes absolutely no skill to pick-up women... all you have to do is walk up to them and talk to them for 30 seconds, get their number, then take them out.

If you look somewhat respectable... anybody can get any girl them wanted.
 

Wildebeest

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real2 said:
My game is a 10. Your game is a 10. Everyones game here is a 10.

You are enough. Don't think otherwise. :rockon:

See hot girl? Approach.
What this man said.
 
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