"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rate Your Game

Your Game?

  • 8-10 Killer

    Votes: 10 50.0%
  • 6-8 bare knuckle boxer

    Votes: 3 15.0%
  • 4-6 Lifting heavy in gym

    Votes: 5 25.0%
  • 1-4 freelance professional gamer

    Votes: 2 10.0%

  • Total voters
    20

HighResurrection

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So basically I wanted to find out what level of skill you have. Also I wanted to find out what are the sticking points for most people. So feel free to add categories. At the top is a skill that has the most value to you. As you go down the list the value of the skill should be less. Please include an area where you think you need most improvement.





HighRez



Body language: 7



I’m usually very conscious of making myself bigger when around women. I always take my hands out of my pockets. On dates I use this to my advantage very well. I’m sure I can improve speaking with my hands. Also I’m sure that I can improve my posture too.




Approach: 8

I rate my self really good in terms of approaching. Over the past 3 or 4 months I’ve really improved. In the past it was a big thing to approach a woman. I would never approach a group of women. Now I just focus positive thoughts on what I’m learning and it’s automatic. I’ll approach anyone anywhere. I think the area I need to improve is recognizing women’s body language. It’s not the worst thing to get a number from a girl who is rushing to work. For me I think it better to seek out girl who have time to have a conversation.




Rapport: 4

I think this is where I need to improve. Being valuable and rare doesn’t mean not taking the time to build a connection. From now on I’m going to spend 10min building rapport with “me too” statements. If they say they have to go, I’ll just tell them that I have to go.




So gentlemen let me know your top 3
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SamTheHobit

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real2 said:
My game is a 10. Your game is a 10. Everyones game here is a 10.

You are enough. Don't think otherwise. :rockon:

See hot girl? Approach.
agreed.
 

HighResurrection

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I agree everyone naturally has amazing game. What I'm getting at what areas do you need to work on? Micheal Jordan thought about where he needed to improve.
 

SamTheHobit

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My self image Is my only problem. My confidence is pretty good.
 

PigAdlemPimp

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I don't worry about rating myself, nor do I even consider it to be a game, or even target specific girls in an attempt to fvck them.

In my younger years I did do these things, but as time went by, I learnt what to say when I approached a hot girl.

Its far more important to me to be able to read the girls mind than it is for me to seduce her.

If you know what the signs of a girls level of attraction is towards you, it makes it easy to pick them up.

I can't be bothered trying to seduce a girl who doesn't desire me, when I can tell by the body language of the ones who do and there are enough of them.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Szyzzlin

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Hahaha... I think rating your game is a funny thing!

It takes absolutely no skill to pick-up women... all you have to do is walk up to them and talk to them for 30 seconds, get their number, then take them out.

If you look somewhat respectable... anybody can get any girl them wanted.
 

Wildebeest

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real2 said:
My game is a 10. Your game is a 10. Everyones game here is a 10.

You are enough. Don't think otherwise. :rockon:

See hot girl? Approach.
What this man said.
 
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