"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nope. Nothing special in my book.

My husband thinks Cindy Crawford was never anything special.

He thought Christy Brinkley and Claudia Shiffer were HOT.

Beauty is always in the eye of the beholder.

Only for all of human existence my dear.
Still LMFAO here BE.
Like I said already - it does not matter what one persons opinion or preference or particular taste is ,
You or your partner. Or a small groups.

It’s what is the consensus opinion of the masses my dear. The consensus reality.
So in that context , your argument falls apart.

Cindy Crawford is a fvcking SuperModel ffs.
OF COURSE she is a 10/10 by default.
As a SUPER model is the top tier of the Modelling world and have been chosen and elevated as such.
It does not matter what your hubbys personal opinion is at all. That he prefers blondes.
he could rate her a 1/10 if he likes :rofl::rofl::rofl:
Because no one cares. (!!)
delusional stuff here.
My favourite was Linda Evangelista. Cos she looks like a total B1tch.:D

Yknow both you and SG say this over and over.
“ but I am just one woman , it’s just my personal opinion and preferences rah rah”

and I am like… yes, EXACTLY.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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to stretch out the parody

Ripley-Newt! Wheres your father?

Newt: - He went into the Chad Hive to try pickup the hot chicks inside, with his Game.

Ripley - and where is he Newt?Tell me.

Newt - ……he’s DEAD. Alright? Can I go now?”

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Obviously there is such a thing as objective beauty, but the subjective side is still a factor, which is why some women will look at a guy that other men would rate as an 8/10 and she will call him "average".
of course there is.
Wtf are you talking about,
dreaming mate. Wake up.
You are talking about ‘taste’ only. Women’s particular taste within the Top Tier.
More cope.

Callum Turner is fvcking DUA LIPA atm bro.
Wtf are you on about..the evidence is right there in front of your face.
 
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For example, as a straight guy, I don’t personally give a shyte about hunter eyes on a dude. Not sure why it makes much difference. But having seeing enough photos or real life examples of guys with hunter eyes (for example) that women rate as attractive, well that’s a pattern.
well bro. I can only tell you go out and roll with a guy who looks like that. Has great eyes.
And watch at all the iois he gets walking down a busy shopping street in the day time, or in a bar or club. And watch the eye contact chicks will give him, and the heads turning as he walks past.

My old best friend looked similar to Richard Gere.
a Natural. He was the biggest pvssy magnetI’ve ever met in my life. And picked up hot sexy women easy as piss, almost every night I went out with him.

@characternote will testify to same as he has 2 Chad tier buddies.
 
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Still LMFAO here BE.
Like I said already - it does not matter what one persons opinion or preference or particular taste is ,
You or your partner. Or a small groups.

It’s what is the consensus opinion of the masses my dear. The consensus reality.
So in that context , your argument falls apart.

Cindy Crawford is a fvcking SuperModel ffs.
OF COURSE she is a 10/10 by default.
As a SUPER model is the top tier of the Modelling world and have been chosen and elevated as such.
It does not matter what your hubbys personal opinion is at all. That he prefers blondes.
he could rate her a 1/10 if he likes :rofl::rofl::rofl:
Because no one cares. (!!)
delusional stuff here.
My favourite was Linda Evangelista. Cos she looks like a total B1tch.:D

Yknow both you and SG say this over and over.
“ but I am just one woman , it’s just my personal opinion and preferences rah rah”

and I am like… yes, EXACTLY.
Who is Cindy Crawford?



Because that sure as hell isn't the same neck...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I married for actual attraction, desire & love. And both husbands made/make six figures, but I never needed a man for resources along the way. Still don't in fact.

And yes, beautiful women are selecting from top tier men. Shocker, I know, and I got to pick from amongst very elite level handsome men and desirable men, no doubt. But did I pick the richest, most famous? Nope.

y'all treat me like I'm full or crap or act jealous/envious that someone like me is very real, as advertised, and some feel the need to insult/attack.

For the guys with that attitude? No wonder you stink with women! Men like that are invisible to beautiful sought after women. Don't be bitter. Be better. That is the only way to create the reality you say you want.

I offer a POV from that "priviledged" world. Pay attention because I tell it like it is.
BE you are hilarious.
Stop bragging and hanging yourself .
And gaslighting dudes that it is their ‘attitudes’ that are making them invisible to beautiful sought after women. And tell them to improve their ‘attitudes’ as if that would make any difference (LOL):rofl:

you’ve basically stated above it’s ALL looks.
As you’ve even dumped Money& Status in the bin re your partners. They are so good looking , you would support them for years in end when they are UNEMPLOYED.
I bet you would dish out advice to guys to improve in their careers also.

the subtext of all of this is
‘if you improve XYZ you will get beautiful desirable women’ - Which is a big fat lie. Obvs.

Wether a low level looking guy has a good attitude or a bad one - he is still invisible :rofl::rofl::rofl:

like attracts like basically.
If a guy is a 6 he may get with a 6 female sure..
or more likely a 5.

And he may get her just based on his Looks mainly also!
Without improooooving.:rolleyes:

Classic example.
 
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huh? I don’t get it.
Her head is tipped back up in the air.
And she looks older in pic 2 obvs.

forum guys be like- “neck wrinkle! , 2/10 would not bang.”
Easy, compare the neck length to the distance between the chin and the nose tip. First pic it's the same, 2nd pic it's twice as long. Necks don't grow 4-5 inches over adulthood, so different people in the two pics.

The stuff you guys argue about is laughable considering how phony our world is. CC is just one of many small but glaring examples. Lolz we just had a US president who was an imposter.

Edit - laugh all you want, but how can you rate faces if you can't tell people apart? LMAO
 
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Easy, compare the neck length to the distance between the chin and the nose tip. First pic it's the same, 2nd pic it's twice as long. Necks don't grow 4-5 inches over adulthood, so different people in the two pics.

The stuff you guys argue about is laughable considering how phony our world is. CC is just one of many small but glaring examples
Ok Billy it’s time for you to take your medication and go to bed.
CC has a body double , and is part of a CIA psyOp also I’m betting is coming next.

or else she is possibly just tilting her head back mate:rolleyes:

Re Trump do u also think Body Double orrrr

(do I wanna know the answer idk)
 
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speaking of conspiracy theories.
My friend has one about this forum.
HE reckons that this forum is basically One guy, a ahizophrenic PUA dude who manages multiple fake accounts under different user handles.
And switches between them to debate a few real people who are unawares. to keep his dying forum going round and round.
He probably sits in a mental institution. On a laptop posting crap around the clock.

This is my FRIENDS theory rho ok.
Not mine. So don’t ban me for saying that. ;P
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Post filled with assumptions, strawmanning, and goal post moving.

I don't have much energy for a long post right now, but I will say for now, I never poked holes in your life, nor have I said you are full of crap.
Not at all. Simply pointing out that you have labeled me "intensely hypergamous" in error. A rather egregious error in fact. Quite the opposite frankly.

And I find that odd from a poster who should recognize the consistency of my content around here. The only way content can be as consistent as mine has been for 10+ years and thousands of posts is that its true.

If you think I'm arrogant? Fine. But I do not need to exaggerate, and lots of guys really do not grasp the landscape a beautiful woman navigates in real life.

And that landscape also includes risks that average Joes also don't have to worry about. So it is not just unicorns and rainbows.

Does your wife make sure doors are always locked at night at your house? Think about why that might be.
 

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BE you are hilarious.
Stop bragging and hanging yourself .
And gaslighting dudes that it is their ‘attitudes’ that are making them invisible to beautiful sought after women. And tell them to improve their ‘attitudes’ as if that would make any difference (LOL):rofl:

you’ve basically stated above it’s ALL looks.
As you’ve even dumped Money& Status in the bin re your partners. They are so good looking , you would support them for years in end when they are UNEMPLOYED.
I bet you would dish out advice to guys to improve in their careers also.

the subtext of all of this is
‘if you improve XYZ you will get beautiful desirable women’ - Which is a big fat lie. Obvs.

Wether a low level looking guy has a good attitude or a bad one - he is still invisible :rofl::rofl::rofl:

like attracts like basically.
If a guy is a 6 he may get with a 6 female sure..
or more likely a 5.

And he may get her just based on his Looks mainly also!
Without improooooving.:rolleyes:

Classic example.
Nah. I don't deal with unsuccessful men. I dated very successful men, and I married men who made and still make in the case of the second one, six figure incomes. The first one got screwed over in business by his best friend since age 10, and became depressed etc. after we were already married. Sometimes life hits you in ways you don't anticipate. We wanted parents raising our kids, not daycares. So the obvious choice was for him to be the house spouse. None of that was foreseeable.

What I and others in this thread are telling you is that looks are only part of the deal. That means a couple of things. One, it means looks, no matter how great, only get you in the door. Your personality, ambition, character, and other non appearance based attributes take the rest. The Duke explained it very well. Atom Smasher has explained it in one of your recent threads as well. You can be incredibly handsome & still blow it with ugly or inappropriate behavior, for example.

Secongly you can also increase your success rate by improving non appearance attributes.

You are overly fixated on looks. Height is a similar thing. So is hair loss. That's genetics and it is what it is. And yet there are plenty of attractive women with men under 6' tall, and plenty of attractive women with bald or "hair impaired" men.

My son is only 5'8". He's handsome, fit, but not tall. His wife is very pretty and absolutely adores him. I know other men who are not the Chad stereo type who have found women to date/marry etc with.

Maximize what you are working with across the board friend. That includes, but is not limited to looks.
 

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of course there is.
Wtf are you talking about,
dreaming mate. Wake up.
You are talking about ‘taste’ only. Women’s particular taste within the Top Tier.
More cope.

Callum Turner is fvcking DUA LIPA atm bro.
Wtf are you on about..the evidence is right there in front of your face.
My point seems to be lost on you. All i'm saying is that the objective and subjective are both factors. It seems to people want to insist it's one or the other, which is a recurring problem in this board - a total lack of nuance.

It's pretty simple really. There are universal signals of beauty/attraction, but on an individual level, this preferences can vary dramatically.

I've experienced this with my friends a lot They show me a girl they say is a 10/10 and I consider her a 7. Or vice versa. It's happened over and ove ragain. We could start posting pics of 10s right now and there would not be much agreement. It's the exact same for women. It's the exact same for women, some women like roided bodybuilders, some women like skinny k-pop twinks. How is this hard to grasp? How can you possibly claim otherwise? How is this hard to grasp?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just look at all the obese people walking around who could be attractive if they controlled their weight. As you get older lifestyle choices like eating properly and exercising outweigh genetics. It becomes obvious who looks after themselves and who doesn't.
Very true this. A decent body after 40 is better status then money house or car IMO
 

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I've experienced this with my friends a lot. They show me a girl they say is a 10/10 and I consider her a 7. Or vice versa. We could start posting pics of 10s right now and there would not be much agreement. It's the exact same for women. How is this hard to grasp?
Even though I deffo lean way toward CJ with this debate and the very real limitations of 'game', I do agree with you on this point, and it's something I talk about myself quite a lot.

I also think it does a better job of explaining some 'miss-matches' than other theories i've read about.

The 'post your 10' thread is quite a clear example. Some guys were posting '10's' who I HONESTLY wouldn't bang if they made it easy for me!

I also always think about when I used to work in an office with basically all girls, and the lazy cows would spend all day flirting with random men on insta whilst I worked! They DM guys and talk about who was hot etc, and I always remember that the hottest of them seemed to have unusual taste in men and the guys that she thought were super handsome were the guys who her friends teased her about "HIM?!! He's so skinny. Look at his weird nose!" etc

I don't rate myself much in the looks department but I have banged some girls who are very pretty (and way younger than me too). To the point my friends would say 'How did you do that?!!!'. I'd LOVE to tell you (and them) that i have some amazing super attraction building lines and secret techniques, but in reality, I think about it more like I approached enough hot girls to stumble across the ones who had 'weird taste', like the aforementioned hot girl in the office job! But of course if I looked like my ex wingman and was 'conventionally' very handsome, i'd for certain get laid every time I went out for a night. Using the same 'game'

So my advice has always generally been to get as good looking as possible, then hit on lots of girls! The 'game' part is really about not having so much 'anti game' that you manage to screw it up with girls who want you
 
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My point seems to be lost on you. All i'm saying is that the objective and subjective are both factors. It seems to people want to insist it's one or the other, which is a recurring problem in this board - a total lack of nuance.

It's pretty simple really. There are universal signals of beauty/attraction, but on an individual level, this preferences can vary dramatically.

I've experienced this with my friends, and on this board. They show me a girl they say is a 10/10 and I consider her a 7. Or vice versa. It's happened with literally every single friend i've done this with. We could start posting pics of 10s right now and there would not be much agreement. It's the exact same for women, some women like roided bodybuilders, some women like skinny k-pop twinks. How is this hard to grasp? How can you possibly claim otherwise?
Also talking about men looks, and that you have to be a giga chad to go anywhere

I would add another example of guys that are considered good looking by a decent proportion of women. The guys from Temptation island. Most of them are average or slightly above average
 

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So my advice has always generally been to get as good looking as possible, then hit on lots of girls! The 'game' part is really about not having so much 'anti game' that you manage to screw it up with girls who want you
Better way to think of is is play to your strengths and maximize your unique traits to have a niche. It's better to be polarizing where you're hyper-attractive to some woman and repulsive to others than it is to be "okay" for all women. Example: sporting a mustache
 

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My point seems to be lost on you. All i'm saying is that the objective and subjective are both factors. It seems to people want to insist it's one or the other, which is a recurring problem in this board - a total lack of nuance.

It's pretty simple really. There are universal signals of beauty/attraction, but on an individual level, this preferences can vary dramatically.

I've experienced this with my friends a lot They show me a girl they say is a 10/10 and I consider her a 7. Or vice versa. It's happened over and ove ragain. We could start posting pics of 10s right now and there would not be much agreement. It's the exact same for women. It's the exact same for women, some women like roided bodybuilders, some women like skinny k-pop twinks. How is this hard to grasp? How can you possibly claim otherwise? How is this hard to grasp?
Dude.
You’re talking about small sample sizes of opinions. And tastes varying within those
I’m talking about the consensus opinion of the masses - yknow the opinion of the globe , of science,

And that there is leagues and tiers to beauty.
Very good looking people have an accepted and acknowledged ‘beautiful ratios’ to their face.
I’m talking especially Face.

everyone in the ‘west ‘ would agree these 3 guys I posted are classically very Handsome . Tall Dark & Handsome is the #1 female preference archetype.

the 3 are inarguably Top Tier Guys. And such guys will always get access to top tier looking women.

beauty is subjective in taste.
A woman may like blonde blue eyed men.
Her top choice will be Tall Blonde & Hansome.
Another may choose Jason Mamoa. Tall well built Dark & Handsome .

most women’s Top 5s are all the same league of guys mate, unfortunately sorry.

they may have other unusual choices that turn them on for some reason. Then it’s a character for a movie or series or whatever. Some famous guy that they have been exposed to via an ongoing Plotline.

but in real life there is no such plotline or background attached to a similar looking guy IRL and he does not get chosen. That’s just a fantasy /romance fantasy type from a show in her mind.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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