"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rate This Girl (#4)

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  • 10 - Gorgeous

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  • 9 - Super hot

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  • 8 - Hot

    Votes: 8 40.0%
  • 7 - Attractive

    Votes: 9 45.0%
  • 6 - Slightly above average

    Votes: 3 15.0%
  • 5 - Average

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bigneil

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Disclaimer - this is my friend's girl. She is hands off. Also, my best female friend. What do you think?





 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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By American standards, once again in the 8 range. I would give her a 7 but this girl would be strongly sought after in the USA by many thirsty yet financially well off dudes. In shape, blonde, decent looking shape = have almost any well off guy she wants.
 

Billtx49

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Doesnt matter what other men think. A woman to one man can be a 9, yet another man thinks shes a 6. Its all subjective.
 

zekko

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Strong 7. If she didn't look so sleazy behind that bar, I might give her an 8.
A guy could go through his 10 post limit quick if there are too many threads like this lol.
 

Scars

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If there's anything I've learned, most female bartenders = drinking problems, and crazy. She might be the "exception" to the rule, but I doubt it. Could she be a fun ****? Sure. That beer belly though... honestly, out of all these "Rate This Girl" threads, I think this chick looks the worst. JMO
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Payaso

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Igetit!

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Surely you must be joking,lol. You can't seriously be giving that girl a "2".

To me,the 2nd chick is the hottest of them all...with #3 a close second.

Course,her standing there in her bra and panties probably bumped her a bit higher. :D
 

old_skoolr

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7-8

Nice body, good rack and bit of a curve and the slight tatt on her inner arm, I'm also a sucker for long hair, more to pull lol

Her face abit plain though.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GoodOne123

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Solid 7. Would be higher if she was a bit more trim, less pale, less fake peroxide blonde.
 

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So, I don't give any girl a 10. Period. I feel like it's a way of pedestaling them. Also, it implies that there is no girl out there possibly hotter than them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigneil

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Once again, members here seem to have zero ability to rate the girls I photograph without desperately trying to make them seem average.

SS says: 6.6.
Official score: 9.2.



 

bigneil

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In an ironic twist, I had lunch at her place after posting this and she told me she broke up with her boyfriend and gave me a bear hug.
 
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