"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rate This Girl (#3)

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  • 10 - Gorgeous

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • 9 - Super hot

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 8 - Hot

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • 7 - Attractive

    Votes: 8 42.1%
  • 6 - Slightly above average (and I hate white people)

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • 5 - Average (and I'm gay)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 1

    Votes: 1 5.3%

  • Total voters
    19

bigneil

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Pretty face, I'm curious about her ethnicity/ancestry. She does have an Eastern European look to her.

Even with the implants, boobs are kind of smallish for me. That's a matter of taste though. I bet they get bigger as she gets older. Still not going to rate her. :)
I'm so happy she didn't drastically alter herself. Her body is designed for small ones. She is Irish and Russian (as am I).

Did you guys know that on Hot or Not, the hottest girls rated about 6.6 and that scaled to 10? There are always fat old women who rate the hottest girls 1. Remember: a 10 is the highest rated, not someone who everyone agrees is a 10. Someone tried to say that this suggests that 8's are really 5's. That's not true. An 8 is hotter than 80% of women. Therefore, this girl is a 9 IMO. She's the prettiest girl at her club - always. A beauty among beauties.

To call her average suggests that HALF the WOMEN on EARTH are prettier? Please. This is demonstrably, patently false as I prove here:

"Today, the average American woman is 37 years old, 5'4″, has a waist size of 34-35 inches and weighs between 140-150 lbs, with a dress size of 12-14."


This girl is 21, 5'1", 32 bust - 25 waist (10 inches smaller than average) - 36 hips, weighs between 105-110 lb, with a dress size of 1-2.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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As if you got to choose not to be with her.
You're hostile. It seems if people don't agree with you they are wrong or delusional. At least admit your a bit narcissistic
 

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Did you guys know that on Hot or Not, the hottest girls rated about 6.6 and that scaled to 10? There are always fat old women who rate the hottest girls 1. Remember: a 10 is the highest rated, not someone who everyone agrees is a 10. Someone tried to say that this suggests that 8's are really 5's. That's not true. An 8 is hotter than 80% of women. Therefore, this girl is a 9 IMO. She's the prettiest girl at her club - always. A beauty among beauties.
Russian and Irish is an interesting mix.
I think what you have to remember is that people don't all scale the same way. So when you say an 8 is hotter than 80% of women, not everybody rates that way.

Myself, I don't believe in 10s, that's an ideal benchmark. Doable women are 6s and above. 5s I might think about, but when it comes right down to it I'm going to pass. The vast, vast majority of hot women I would rate a 7. 6s are cute. If I think they're exceptional they get an 8. 9s are very, very rare to me, I've only met a few in my entire life. And to keep it objective, they're not really a 9 unless they are attracting male attention everywhere they go (which pretty much makes them useless lol).

Anyway, that's the way I rate, and I'm fairly stubborn about it. I'm sure other people have their own system.
 

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I would say strong 7, but just not really my type.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're hostile. It seems if people don't agree with you they are wrong or delusional. At least admit your a bit narcissistic
Wow, if you think that was hostile you need to retreat to your safe space with your special snowflakes.
 

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Wow, if you think that was hostile you need to retreat to your safe space with your special snowflakes.
Maye hostile wasn't the word....and I'm in Chicago not many safe spaces
 

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I'm glad you guys don't think she's more than a 7. I'm probably a 7 so maybe I have a chance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm glad you guys don't think she's more than a 7. I'm probably a 7 so maybe I have a chance.
I think it depends on what area you're in. Non-fat girls aren't my type to begin with, but in my location she looks like an average woman because that's how women look here, and if I wanted her specific eastern european facial features + natural blonde hair I could just take the local cruise liner. If you think this girl is special, go to north-west Russia, Estonia, Latvia or Lithuania.
 

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I had this photo of my favorite girl rated on a professional photo rating service (that I had to pay for) and she rated 9.8/10 (top 2%). Consistent with my rating her the most beautiful girl I know, and highly inconsistent with what Latisha and her friends here said. I'm so disappointed with SS as a rating service. Too many people with issues to be honest here, as readers can see. There can mathematically be hardly anyone hotter than this girl. "She's not my type"? She's everyone's type.

 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So, until someone shows a girl rated in the top 1% versus the mere top 2%, I will remain the SS member who had the hottest date. I expect lots of female logic to follow.
 

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This girl is a solid 5 1/2
Says PeasantPlayer. Who has now been officially proven to be statistically 80% wrong. Show us a hotter girl. You don't get to rate women in a vacuum. You either have a hotter girl or you don't, Latisha.

I attest this is the hottest girl anyone on SS ever dated.
 

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Says PeasantPlayer. Who has now been officially proven to be statistically 80% wrong. Show us a hotter girl. You don't get to rate women in a vacuum. You either have a hotter girl or you don't, Latisha.

I attest this is the hottest girl anyone on SS ever dated.
80 percent wrong about what exactly? This is your average women at a gym in a yuppie neigborhood. Starbucks yoga pants, bony shoulders bad skin caked in make up
 

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I'm sorry gentlemen but I can't understand anyone who would rate this girl below a 7. But we all have different standards. I give her an 8.8. She looks genuine in the face, hot as F to me.

@bigneil is this the one who was sitting on your lap with her kitty cat out?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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