"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Rate This Girl (#3)

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  • 10 - Gorgeous

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • 9 - Super hot

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 8 - Hot

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • 7 - Attractive

    Votes: 8 42.1%
  • 6 - Slightly above average (and I hate white people)

    Votes: 4 21.1%
  • 5 - Average (and I'm gay)

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 1

    Votes: 1 5.3%

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bigneil

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Pretty face, I'm curious about her ethnicity/ancestry. She does have an Eastern European look to her.

Even with the implants, boobs are kind of smallish for me. That's a matter of taste though. I bet they get bigger as she gets older. Still not going to rate her. :)
I'm so happy she didn't drastically alter herself. Her body is designed for small ones. She is Irish and Russian (as am I).

Did you guys know that on Hot or Not, the hottest girls rated about 6.6 and that scaled to 10? There are always fat old women who rate the hottest girls 1. Remember: a 10 is the highest rated, not someone who everyone agrees is a 10. Someone tried to say that this suggests that 8's are really 5's. That's not true. An 8 is hotter than 80% of women. Therefore, this girl is a 9 IMO. She's the prettiest girl at her club - always. A beauty among beauties.

To call her average suggests that HALF the WOMEN on EARTH are prettier? Please. This is demonstrably, patently false as I prove here:

"Today, the average American woman is 37 years old, 5'4″, has a waist size of 34-35 inches and weighs between 140-150 lbs, with a dress size of 12-14."


This girl is 21, 5'1", 32 bust - 25 waist (10 inches smaller than average) - 36 hips, weighs between 105-110 lb, with a dress size of 1-2.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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As if you got to choose not to be with her.
You're hostile. It seems if people don't agree with you they are wrong or delusional. At least admit your a bit narcissistic
 

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Did you guys know that on Hot or Not, the hottest girls rated about 6.6 and that scaled to 10? There are always fat old women who rate the hottest girls 1. Remember: a 10 is the highest rated, not someone who everyone agrees is a 10. Someone tried to say that this suggests that 8's are really 5's. That's not true. An 8 is hotter than 80% of women. Therefore, this girl is a 9 IMO. She's the prettiest girl at her club - always. A beauty among beauties.
Russian and Irish is an interesting mix.
I think what you have to remember is that people don't all scale the same way. So when you say an 8 is hotter than 80% of women, not everybody rates that way.

Myself, I don't believe in 10s, that's an ideal benchmark. Doable women are 6s and above. 5s I might think about, but when it comes right down to it I'm going to pass. The vast, vast majority of hot women I would rate a 7. 6s are cute. If I think they're exceptional they get an 8. 9s are very, very rare to me, I've only met a few in my entire life. And to keep it objective, they're not really a 9 unless they are attracting male attention everywhere they go (which pretty much makes them useless lol).

Anyway, that's the way I rate, and I'm fairly stubborn about it. I'm sure other people have their own system.
 

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I would say strong 7, but just not really my type.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You're hostile. It seems if people don't agree with you they are wrong or delusional. At least admit your a bit narcissistic
Wow, if you think that was hostile you need to retreat to your safe space with your special snowflakes.
 

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Wow, if you think that was hostile you need to retreat to your safe space with your special snowflakes.
Maye hostile wasn't the word....and I'm in Chicago not many safe spaces
 

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I'm glad you guys don't think she's more than a 7. I'm probably a 7 so maybe I have a chance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm glad you guys don't think she's more than a 7. I'm probably a 7 so maybe I have a chance.
I think it depends on what area you're in. Non-fat girls aren't my type to begin with, but in my location she looks like an average woman because that's how women look here, and if I wanted her specific eastern european facial features + natural blonde hair I could just take the local cruise liner. If you think this girl is special, go to north-west Russia, Estonia, Latvia or Lithuania.
 

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I had this photo of my favorite girl rated on a professional photo rating service (that I had to pay for) and she rated 9.8/10 (top 2%). Consistent with my rating her the most beautiful girl I know, and highly inconsistent with what Latisha and her friends here said. I'm so disappointed with SS as a rating service. Too many people with issues to be honest here, as readers can see. There can mathematically be hardly anyone hotter than this girl. "She's not my type"? She's everyone's type.

 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So, until someone shows a girl rated in the top 1% versus the mere top 2%, I will remain the SS member who had the hottest date. I expect lots of female logic to follow.
 

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This girl is a solid 5 1/2
Says PeasantPlayer. Who has now been officially proven to be statistically 80% wrong. Show us a hotter girl. You don't get to rate women in a vacuum. You either have a hotter girl or you don't, Latisha.

I attest this is the hottest girl anyone on SS ever dated.
 

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Says PeasantPlayer. Who has now been officially proven to be statistically 80% wrong. Show us a hotter girl. You don't get to rate women in a vacuum. You either have a hotter girl or you don't, Latisha.

I attest this is the hottest girl anyone on SS ever dated.
80 percent wrong about what exactly? This is your average women at a gym in a yuppie neigborhood. Starbucks yoga pants, bony shoulders bad skin caked in make up
 

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I'm sorry gentlemen but I can't understand anyone who would rate this girl below a 7. But we all have different standards. I give her an 8.8. She looks genuine in the face, hot as F to me.

@bigneil is this the one who was sitting on your lap with her kitty cat out?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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