"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rate This Girl (#2)

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  • 10 - Carmen Electra

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • 9 - Super hot

    Votes: 3 14.3%
  • 8 - Hot

    Votes: 5 23.8%
  • 7 - Attractive

    Votes: 7 33.3%
  • 6 - Slightly above average (and I hate white people)

    Votes: 4 19.0%
  • 5 - Average (and I'm gay)

    Votes: 2 9.5%
  • 1-4 (I voted for Hillary)

    Votes: 0 0.0%

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bigneil

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Disclaimer - this girl is 18 and I never touched her. I'm curious what SS members rate her.

If you say she is less than a 7, please post a photo of a 10 along with your race.



 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Way better than #1 girl post. Sultry and hot.
She looks half pissed in the second pic though.
 
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Top pic she looks like 7-8.. bottom pick she looks like a 5... sorry man. Maybe it's a bad pic, but those eyebrows, man face, and clown make up... god damn. First picture looks good, but then again she is half naked.. and she knows that. I bet once that bra comes off, those tits sag another 4 inches. Is she ****able? Yeah, sure.
 

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Top pic she looks like 7-8.. bottom pick she looks like a 5... sorry man.
Interesting, I think she looks better in the bottom picture. Obviously she has a nice body.
But she's 18? She's looks about 35 in that first picture. Strong 6.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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El Payaso

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I'm guessing she's a stripper.
 

Scars

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Interesting, I think she looks better in the bottom picture. Obviously she has a nice body.
But she's 18? She's looks about 35 in that first picture. Strong 6.
You're probably a dude who finds Angelina Jolie attractive I'm assuming? I mean, I can get why other guys see her attractive, and I'm not doubting that, but just not for me I guess... too "man face" for me. That's the best way I can describe it. Obviously, she isn't a man, and has a nice body... but wouldn't be my first pick.
 

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You're probably a dude who finds Angelina Jolie attractive I'm assuming? I mean, I can get why other guys see her attractive, and I'm not doubting that, but just not for me I guess... too "man face" for me. That's the best way I can describe it. Obviously, she isn't a man, and has a nice body... but wouldn't be my first pick.
Wouldn't be my first pick either, that's why I rated her a 6. You're the one who said she looked like a 7-8. Doable though.
Never been particularly fond of Angelina Jolie.
 

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Wouldn't be my first pick either, that's why I rated her a 6. You're the one who said she looked like a 7-8. Doable though.
Never been particularly fond of Angelina Jolie.
To be honest, when looking at the two pictures, they look like two completely different woman... lmao, I almost feel like OP is trolling us. *Shrugs*
 

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can you post more of her
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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8 but I agree she has a manly face.

She must be Easter European descent, still hot though.
 

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I would go with 7 too. first pic way better than second and she certainly doesn't look 18
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She's 18? Looks 35 to me. I like younger looking girls. Wouldn't approach her at a bar for sure.
 

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Would smash. Infinitely better than the first chick. But still not that hot. Her body is her best asset.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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