"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rate this chick out of ten

Rate this chick out of 10

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    Votes: 1 2.3%
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    Votes: 1 2.3%
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    Votes: 1 2.3%
  • 4

    Votes: 5 11.4%
  • 5

    Votes: 12 27.3%
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    Votes: 15 34.1%
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    Votes: 6 13.6%
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TopGun2000

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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zekko

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bradd80 said:
^^^ i agree
The thing is with the OP's girl, she has a nice slim, slender shape, doesn't have any extra fat on her. To me, once you start getting down into the 5's and 6's, as some people are rating her, you're getting into girls who have some body issues. Maybe a few extra pounds or whatnot. Which this girl does not have, so I can't see rating her that low. Unless her face is busted, which I don't think it is. She's not drop dead gorgeous, or I'd give her an 8.

I know Burroughs said she looks like she could get fat, but I see very few Asian women in my area get fat, even when they're older. Presumably it's the diet.
 

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Burroughs said:
5-6

watch out though she looks like she's going to get fat...no tone on arms, her face looks like it could expand after every bite of cheesecake....then she'll morph into a hb2 wildebeast
Lol
 

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5-6. She has nice eyes, but no face or body to match. Strong potential, though.
 

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OP's chick: 4 or less.

10 minus 4 points for age 45ish. Minus 1 point for fat. Filipina, almost certainly no butt, so minus another point. Worse still, she'd have small, uninteresting breasts if she wasn't fat. Hair just barely to bottom of shoulder blades, so take off another point as you see fit.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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omega05

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For each of you guys calling her a 4, there's 10 guys who thinks she's an 8. With that said I think she's cute like a 6.5-7
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Guess what the average vote on here was 5.911 CLOSE TO a 6, WHICH IS WHAT I WOULD RATE HER A 6.

So I am realistic when I say that I had coffee with HB7 or HB6 or whatever.
OK SO IF I MENTION HB8 in my thread, it really was an HB8 OK?

Unlike (several posters that have called HB8s when they are really HB6s)

I had a movie and coffee with that chick and she treated me to it.
Game on susuavers, try to one up me by having coffee and movie with a 7 and post her pic here and ask her to "treat you" with no mention of "treating her back". And also allow for ratings so guys can rate the HBs ok?
 

omega05

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what does it matter what you rate a girl you're going to coffee with though? Obviously you think she's attractive if you're taking her out or whatever. Let us know what happens by date 3 or 4
 

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Guys....don't be chubby chasers....its quality of women not quantity. The chick in the first group of pictures looked like an Easter Island Statue with that giant nose... the second chick was a fairy monster....

Yuck and Yuck... They get no rating....they get yucked....
 

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omega05 said:
For each of you guys calling her a 4, there's 10 guys who thinks she's an 8. With that said I think she's cute like a 6.5-7
If you want to see a 6.5 or 7 Filipina, watch the dancing girls on Eat Bulaga or something. Seriously, you guys who rated the OP's coffee mate anything higher than 5 need to date a broader variety of women.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hmm slightly below average face (just my opinion)

but very nice legs, good hairstlye, nice bust, nice ass and a good figure.

I'd say probably a 7. With a cuter face she'd be 7.5 imo
 

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cordoncordon said:
I actually like this thread. Not enough guys post pics on this site and its good to see people's different rating systems. Here is a pic of my gf (Asian) of 3 years. Just took it last night.
Rate away. :)
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/823/rosejeans.jpg/
I've seen you post her pics a few times since I joined here. I'm usually not TOO into Asian chicks, but every so often I find one that I think is sexy as hell. She is one of them, and an easy 8 for me.
 

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SteR said:
How'd you meet her?
While grocery shopping in Marina Del Rey. Saw her and said no way am I leaving here without talking to her and getting those digits. Really was that easy. Good advice for any of the guys here. Worst that can happen is she says no.
 

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Down Low said:
If you want to see a 6.5 or 7 Filipina, watch the dancing girls on Eat Bulaga or something. Seriously, you guys who rated the OP's coffee mate anything higher than 5 need to date a broader variety of women.
how are you gonna tell someone else what they should rate a girl as?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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