Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Rate this chick out of ten

Rate this chick out of 10

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    Votes: 1 2.3%

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    Votes: 1 2.3%

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    Votes: 1 2.3%

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    Votes: 5 11.4%

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    Votes: 12 27.3%

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    Votes: 15 34.1%

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    Votes: 6 13.6%

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    Votes: 3 6.8%

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bradd80 said:
^^^ i agree
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The thing is with the OP's girl, she has a nice slim, slender shape, doesn't have any extra fat on her. To me, once you start getting down into the 5's and 6's, as some people are rating her, you're getting into girls who have some body issues. Maybe a few extra pounds or whatnot. Which this girl does not have, so I can't see rating her that low. Unless her face is busted, which I don't think it is. She's not drop dead gorgeous, or I'd give her an 8.

I know Burroughs said she looks like she could get fat, but I see very few Asian women in my area get fat, even when they're older. Presumably it's the diet.
 
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Burroughs said:
5-6

watch out though she looks like she's going to get fat...no tone on arms, her face looks like it could expand after every bite of cheesecake....then she'll morph into a hb2 wildebeast
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Lol
 
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5-6. She has nice eyes, but no face or body to match. Strong potential, though.
 
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OP's chick: 4 or less.

10 minus 4 points for age 45ish. Minus 1 point for fat. Filipina, almost certainly no butt, so minus another point. Worse still, she'd have small, uninteresting breasts if she wasn't fat. Hair just barely to bottom of shoulder blades, so take off another point as you see fit.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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For each of you guys calling her a 4, there's 10 guys who thinks she's an 8. With that said I think she's cute like a 6.5-7
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Guess what the average vote on here was 5.911 CLOSE TO a 6, WHICH IS WHAT I WOULD RATE HER A 6.

So I am realistic when I say that I had coffee with HB7 or HB6 or whatever.
OK SO IF I MENTION HB8 in my thread, it really was an HB8 OK?

Unlike (several posters that have called HB8s when they are really HB6s)

I had a movie and coffee with that chick and she treated me to it.
Game on susuavers, try to one up me by having coffee and movie with a 7 and post her pic here and ask her to "treat you" with no mention of "treating her back". And also allow for ratings so guys can rate the HBs ok?
 
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what does it matter what you rate a girl you're going to coffee with though? Obviously you think she's attractive if you're taking her out or whatever. Let us know what happens by date 3 or 4
 
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Guys....don't be chubby chasers....its quality of women not quantity. The chick in the first group of pictures looked like an Easter Island Statue with that giant nose... the second chick was a fairy monster....

Yuck and Yuck... They get no rating....they get yucked....
 
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omega05 said:
For each of you guys calling her a 4, there's 10 guys who thinks she's an 8. With that said I think she's cute like a 6.5-7
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If you want to see a 6.5 or 7 Filipina, watch the dancing girls on Eat Bulaga or something. Seriously, you guys who rated the OP's coffee mate anything higher than 5 need to date a broader variety of women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hmm slightly below average face (just my opinion)

but very nice legs, good hairstlye, nice bust, nice ass and a good figure.

I'd say probably a 7. With a cuter face she'd be 7.5 imo
 
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cordoncordon said:
I actually like this thread. Not enough guys post pics on this site and its good to see people's different rating systems. Here is a pic of my gf (Asian) of 3 years. Just took it last night.
Rate away. :)
http://imageshack.us/photo/my-images/823/rosejeans.jpg/
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I've seen you post her pics a few times since I joined here. I'm usually not TOO into Asian chicks, but every so often I find one that I think is sexy as hell. She is one of them, and an easy 8 for me.
 
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SteR said:
How'd you meet her?
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While grocery shopping in Marina Del Rey. Saw her and said no way am I leaving here without talking to her and getting those digits. Really was that easy. Good advice for any of the guys here. Worst that can happen is she says no.
 
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Down Low said:
If you want to see a 6.5 or 7 Filipina, watch the dancing girls on Eat Bulaga or something. Seriously, you guys who rated the OP's coffee mate anything higher than 5 need to date a broader variety of women.
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how are you gonna tell someone else what they should rate a girl as?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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