"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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ps shouldnt we be rating broads and not asian dudes?
the asian man makes up at least 50% of this board, and about the same percentage of guys who buy dj products. there are more asian dj sites and programs than just normal dj sites and programs.canadianmetalhead said:
why is this so? because everywhere asian guys go they are screwed. fair? who gives crap if it is fair! it is just a fact of life. hell, at least most of you can go to russia or ukraine and find some beautiful young provincial girl who will follow you around like a lil' lost puppy...but even in those places an asian male will find it difficult.
you have no idea how blessed i am to be tall, dark, and handsome with light blue eyes.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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personally, i'd fvck all of them.
wait.... does that make me gay? :nervous:
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i'm a 3.4sebastionay said:
hbu?
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yeah imagine how much harder it is more me to get chicks.sebastionay said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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no man, being above average looking is already half the game.sebastionay said:
and i didn't have much of a father figure either. It's not that he wasn't a man, but he was just never around.
I was raised by my mom too, and i hang out with the geeky crowd.
but see, being good looking and geeky is much better than having a clue and being ugly, cause you can always change your actions, but you can't change your looks.
but anyway yeah i know i can change how i behave, been trying the past 2 and a half years at uni but didnt really clock on that theres a whole game going on at nights out till about 10 months ago :|
my goal is to sort things out before i graduate because im under no illusions in this world, im fully aware of how easy it will be to get nice looking girls when im driving around in a mercedes, I dont want to be a *****'s commodity
I need to work on the tone of my voice, body language, but most importantly i need a good frame for conversation, ive got it down to a tee on the internet where I can reel girls in pretty easily thing is though alot of girls dont even see it as real life when your chatting on msn and so on, and theyre a drive away so i cant casually turn up to escalate things.
need to make myself a very solid conversational frame that i can walk them into in a club thats brief enough to say, what i use on the internet is too deep and complicated but nevertheless does the job.