"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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ps shouldnt we be rating broads and not asian dudes?
the asian man makes up at least 50% of this board, and about the same percentage of guys who buy dj products. there are more asian dj sites and programs than just normal dj sites and programs.canadianmetalhead said:
why is this so? because everywhere asian guys go they are screwed. fair? who gives crap if it is fair! it is just a fact of life. hell, at least most of you can go to russia or ukraine and find some beautiful young provincial girl who will follow you around like a lil' lost puppy...but even in those places an asian male will find it difficult.
you have no idea how blessed i am to be tall, dark, and handsome with light blue eyes.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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personally, i'd fvck all of them.
wait.... does that make me gay? :nervous:
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i'm a 3.4sebastionay said:
hbu?
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yeah imagine how much harder it is more me to get chicks.sebastionay said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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no man, being above average looking is already half the game.sebastionay said:
and i didn't have much of a father figure either. It's not that he wasn't a man, but he was just never around.
I was raised by my mom too, and i hang out with the geeky crowd.
but see, being good looking and geeky is much better than having a clue and being ugly, cause you can always change your actions, but you can't change your looks.
but anyway yeah i know i can change how i behave, been trying the past 2 and a half years at uni but didnt really clock on that theres a whole game going on at nights out till about 10 months ago :|
my goal is to sort things out before i graduate because im under no illusions in this world, im fully aware of how easy it will be to get nice looking girls when im driving around in a mercedes, I dont want to be a *****'s commodity
I need to work on the tone of my voice, body language, but most importantly i need a good frame for conversation, ive got it down to a tee on the internet where I can reel girls in pretty easily thing is though alot of girls dont even see it as real life when your chatting on msn and so on, and theyre a drive away so i cant casually turn up to escalate things.
need to make myself a very solid conversational frame that i can walk them into in a club thats brief enough to say, what i use on the internet is too deep and complicated but nevertheless does the job.