jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
ditto.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Rate these girls
- Thread starter MsThang
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Re:
Cute.
Ya'll are too skinny. Get some meat on those bones.
The cigars are cute, but learn to never take an upclose pic of a girl smoking a cigar who isn't cute to begin with. It only drop her to the impossible level of a -1.
Glad to see ladies mix it up with stogies.
I'm out.
A-Unit
Cute.
Ya'll are too skinny. Get some meat on those bones.
The cigars are cute, but learn to never take an upclose pic of a girl smoking a cigar who isn't cute to begin with. It only drop her to the impossible level of a -1.
Glad to see ladies mix it up with stogies.
I'm out.
A-Unit
Danny21682
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Far left looks like she's taking a massive crap.
Sexy_Malibu
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I was going to post "Wow, MsThang I thought you'd be older". Then I read that you're not any of them, but that one of them ****ed your man. So most likely they're *somewhere* near the age of you and your man. So now I'm going to post, "Wow, MsThang I thought you'd be older".
Unbridled_1
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Phantasmal
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Awww man, c'mon.
http://community.webshots.com/photo/181318665/181318665bZNiww That's one ****ed up set of girls...
Unbridled_1
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let's hear some more opinions....
No, this thread is stupid and you are an asshat for bumping it.Originally posted by Unbridled_1
let's hear some more opinions....
Have a good day.
jonny football hero
Master Don Juan
Just like to say....
Asshat.........hehehehe. Makes me laugh.
Asshat.........hehehehe. Makes me laugh.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.