"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Slickster

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I wonder if you could make it mandatory to rate a tip if you open it? You could also have negative ratings as one suggested. Instead of stars maybe X's or something.

This would prevent what Pook says will happen and what is actually happening. A bunch of 5 star posts and then the rest have no stars.

So you could have 5 positive ratings, 5 neg ratings and then a vote for no rating if the tip just isn't useful to you.

I guess it would force people to actually think. Sometimes I wonder if people care to bother.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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icepick

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Why bother rating something a 2 or a 3 or something in between? If a post has no rating, then you know that either it is 'young' or nobody thought it was that groundbreaking.

Either a post is good, controversial, hackneyed, or stupid. The good ones get 5 stars, controversial ones or hackneyed ones may get 4 or so, and everything else just has nothing.

I think it is good that someone can hop on the forum, select "sort by rating from the beginning" and get the posts that people consider to be helpful.

After 5 or 4 or so, that shows the post was probably not well liked. What is the difference between say a 3 or a 1?
 

Slickster

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Okay ice pick,

Maybe there should just be a Star for good posts and an X for bad ones.
 

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will do, also a smart post to remind people.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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