Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I do like 'em skinny. In the past I've tried to overcome my revulsion to fat but I simply can't do it.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yeah you can usually tell, its especially annoying when I see a whale that would probably be pretty hot if she was just healthy. You know the ones. They have a nice face, use makeup, style hair, dress well... clearly putting forth effort. But inexplicably is 20-50lbs overweight. Why? Why even try at all, if you're going to neglect the most important aspect as well as your damn health?ImTheDoubleGreatest! said:I hate it how some women could be SO much hotter if they were just skinnier.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
There's plenty of incentive, they just don't care for a variety of reasons including ignorance, laziness, and what you pointed out.Espi said:Why not? What incentive have they? A fat chick can attract a plethora of orbiters.
Skinny chicks are a turn off for me, I like em thicker than most, but there comes a point where it's just called... being fat and lazy.PeasantPlayer said:I seen a lot of you guys been brainwashed by the homosexual modeling media and like women with boy bodies. Must be a European thing
Haha agreedDhoulmagus said:I'm guessing these guys giving her 2s and 3s are either jerking off every night or banging some negative 8
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
http://mpcdot.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/anim-hurr.gifjurry said:Haha agreed
Nobody cares about your witty retorts and insults, and the endless negativity you spew on this site.( . )( . ) said:http://mpcdot.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/anim-hurr.gif
Hold on woman. Don't start eagerly rubbing your oversized testosterone drenched cl!t with those fat cheeto-stained fingers just yet. :nono:
This dhoulmagas clown is notoriously known for his ineptitude with women and has a history of crying over where da white wimmen at. All he's done is inadvertently outed himself as someone who can't get a chick who's not overweight. Lets not start popping the champagne corks and pretending you got all of us fat hating cis-fart rapists just yet.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'll move on when you stop posting sneaky ways of pushing fat acceptance..again. Or the multitude of other moronic sh!t only a leftist muffington poster would get upset over men daring to disagree with. Deal? This isn't the first time you've cleverly declared the beauty of fat women is it? I can spot the pattern of agendas you continually push here a mile away.jurry said:Get over it man.. Move on.
( . )( . ) said:I'll move on when you stop posting sneaky ways of pushing fat acceptance..again. Or the multitude of other moronic sh!t only a leftist muffington poster would get upset over men daring to disagree with. Deal? This isn't the first time you've cleverly declared the beauty of fat women is it? I can spot the pattern of agendas you continually push here a mile away.
Men being naturally repulsed by the tidal wave of obesity and subsequent current glorification of Western obesity should not make you angry jurry if you are indeed a male. It just doesn't add up.
Are you a meth addict? You are one delusional bastard..( . )( . ) said:I'll move on when you stop posting sneaky ways of pushing fat acceptance..again. Or the multitude of other moronic sh!t only a leftist muffington poster would get upset over men daring to disagree with. Deal? This isn't the first time you've cleverly declared the beauty of fat women is it?
Men being naturally repulsed by the tidal wave of obesity and subsequent current glorification of Western obesity should not make you angry jurry if you are indeed a male. It just doesn't add up.
Then why do you show so much venom toward men who don't jump on the "obese is beautiful" bandwagon? You seemed to genuinely relish dhoulmagas implying whoever gives the woman you posted a low rating must jerk off every night. I believe this was your response:jurry said:Are you a meth addict? You are one delusional bastard..
You were waiting for an ally to shame (most) men's natural disgust for obesity, you just didn't want to be the first to do it. Also this isn't your first attempt at pushing fat acceptance either. 411's post on fatties a few months back you were quite annoyed at men who were not jumping on the fat acceptance bandwagon as well.jurry said:Haha agreed
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.