Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
great advice bro. REP+DarkLight said:First thing I noticed... DEF use your business smily pic as your prime.
Besides that... maybe spice up the main page a little.
Bottom line... its black and blue, lol.
Add a little more flavor, personality ()
Things that will attract and hook a chicks attention.
Anything that associates w. "attractive" in a chicks mind.
And aesthetically... the layout looks too thin.
Take the concept of BodyLanguage here. Alpha seductive body language is big, spread out, dominant and expressive. Might want to incorporate some of those understandings visually into the layout.
I'll let the myspace wizards take it from here...
Your on your way though...
Peace'
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.