Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
great advice bro. REP+DarkLight said:First thing I noticed... DEF use your business smily pic as your prime.
Besides that... maybe spice up the main page a little.
Bottom line... its black and blue, lol.
Add a little more flavor, personality ()
Things that will attract and hook a chicks attention.
Anything that associates w. "attractive" in a chicks mind.
And aesthetically... the layout looks too thin.
Take the concept of BodyLanguage here. Alpha seductive body language is big, spread out, dominant and expressive. Might want to incorporate some of those understandings visually into the layout.
I'll let the myspace wizards take it from here...
Your on your way though...
Peace'
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.