She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
great advice bro. REP+DarkLight said:First thing I noticed... DEF use your business smily pic as your prime.
Besides that... maybe spice up the main page a little.
Bottom line... its black and blue, lol.
Add a little more flavor, personality ()
Things that will attract and hook a chicks attention.
Anything that associates w. "attractive" in a chicks mind.
And aesthetically... the layout looks too thin.
Take the concept of BodyLanguage here. Alpha seductive body language is big, spread out, dominant and expressive. Might want to incorporate some of those understandings visually into the layout.
I'll let the myspace wizards take it from here...
Your on your way though...
Peace'
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.