“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I saw @devilkingx2 do one of these so I figured I’d do one too. These are my OLD pictures. I’d like to get an unbiased view of where my SMV stands.

I’ll be leaving these up for exactly one day before I pull the link. That way I hopefully won’t get doxxed too horribly. Can’t have employers seeing the type of Red Pill stuff we talk about lol

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Get eye laser surgery so you can stop wearing glasses.

Don't use selfies... have someone else take the pictures of you. It doesn't have to be in a real event, just make it look as if it's organic.

What's your body fat % around?
 

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Get eye laser surgery so you can stop wearing glasses.

Don't use selfies... have someone else take the pictures of you. It doesn't have to be in a real event, just make it look as if it's organic.

What's your body fat % around?
No earthly idea. I’m not fat persay but I don’t have abs so I definitely have a bit of chub to lose. And I do get lots of compliments on the glasses in the first pic, but maybe I’d do contacts one day
 

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What's your height?
 

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No earthly idea. I’m not fat persay but I don’t have abs so I definitely have a bit of chub to lose
Yeah, I could tell, and you can bet your fat fvcking face the girls can too. Your bf% needs to be below the maximum of 15%, aim for 10-13%. It'll make your face look much sharper. So start lifting, doing a short sprint session in the gym after you're done with your workouts and reduce your portion sizes a bit in a way you can sustain as a lifestyle, and replace things in your diet that cause facial water retention with things (like a mineral salt) that don't.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah, I could tell, and you can bet your fat fvcking face the girls can too. Your bf% needs to be below the maximum of 15%, aim for 10-13% as sustainable. It'll make your face look much sharper. So start lifting, doing a short sprint session in the gym after you're done with your workouts, and reduce your portion sizes a bit in a way you can sustain as a lifestyle.
I had a feeling that would get brought up haha. I used to be much leaner than this but I started slacking and then I lost my Chad Jawline. Combine that with abs and I could probably get a good 1-2 points. I appreciate the honesty.
 

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I have similar build, I wouldn't worry about it g
 

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A more sophisticated wardrobe would serve you very well.
By sophisticated, you mean like button downs and things like that? I get 95% of my style choices from Alpha M, teachingmensfashion and r/malefashionadvice at the moment. Most of these pictures were taken at parties, hence the chains
 
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I saw @devilkingx2 do one of these so I figured I’d do one too. These are my OLD pictures. I’d like to get an unbiased view of where my SMV stands.

I’ll be leaving these up for exactly one day before I pull the link. That way I hopefully won’t get doxxed too horribly. Can’t have employers seeing the type of Red Pill stuff we talk about lol

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1. fat on face
2. ugly eyeglases, i look mad good with eyeglasses,better than with contact lenses
3. u need more hair
4. 0 muscles, just fat
5. this tshirt (especially color) doesnt fit you

thats IMO

also shave mustache and feel free to experiment with face hair BUT you generally shouldnt have mustache unless u are 100% sure u look good on it
 
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I was gonna post some more older pictures but honestly these will do the job for now
 

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1. fat on face
2. ugly eyeglases, i look mad good with eyeglasses,better than with contact lenses
3. u need more hair
4. 0 muscles, just fat
5. this tshirt (especially color) doesnt fit you

thats IMO

also shave mustache and feel free to experiment with face hair BUT you generally shouldnt have mustache unless u are 100% sure u look good on it
1.) That would be gym work
2.) So you don’t like the ones in the first picture at all? I ended up getting lots of compliments on them at school. I totally agree that the black ones are ugly though, that was my old pair
3.) Yeah my hair length varies in these pics. Personally I like my hair dark like in pic number 3. I don’t feel like a buzzcut is enough
4.) Gym, hopefully I’ll get muscle memory to get my physique back
5.) Fit as in how it hugs my body or just my style?

As for facial hair, growing a beard is gonna take a solid 2 years. So until then idk if I should shave the mustache or not. I did have it shaved at one point.
 

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Yes. General Fashion advice can be iffy when it is presented to a mass audience in article form. Not really tailored for individuals and their own look.

For you, I think something more sophisticated is very fitting; more seductive for your appearance.
I do like wearing button downs. I was considering buying this one. Chinos are also my bread and butter in my wardrobe

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1.) That would be gym work
2.) So you don’t like the ones in the first picture at all? I ended up getting lots of compliments on them at school. I totally agree that the black ones are ugly though, that was my old pair
3.) Yeah my hair length varies in these pics. Personally I like my hair dark like in pic number 3. I don’t feel like a buzzcut is enough
4.) Gym, hopefully I’ll get muscle memory to get my physique back
5.) Fit as in how it hugs my body or just my style?

As for facial hair, growing a beard is gonna take a solid 2 years. So until then idk if I should shave the mustache or not. I did have it shaved at one point.
look im white but i look better in dark clothes and small eyeglasses with black parts. dont know about you but you need to try it out.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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look im white but i look better in dark clothes and small eyeglasses with black parts. dont know about you but you need to try it out.
Ok I see. I’m going shopping this weekend so I’ll play around with it a bit and see what looks good on me
 

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That's my height as well, which is average.

I see nothing wrong with your looks that would keep you from getting women. If you want some criticism, you look a little bit soft, you might try to get more chiseled (even though "get in the gym" is such a cliche).

Regarding the glasses, I also wear glasses, it hasn't been a dealbreaker for me. I have no doubt I'd be better off without them, but I'm not changing at this point. Would it be considered supplication to blast lasers into your eye just so you can be more pleasing to women? I say fvck 'em if they don't like it.
 

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That's my height as well, which is average.

I see nothing wrong with your looks that would keep you from getting women. If you want some criticism, you look a little bit soft, you might try to get more chiseled (even though "get in the gym" is such a cliche).

Regarding the glasses, I also wear glasses, it hasn't been a dealbreaker for me. I have no doubt I'd be better off without them, but I'm not changing at this point. Would it be considered supplication to blast lasers into your eye just so you can be more pleasing to women? I say fvck 'em if they don't like it.
Thanks man. Once I get off my lazy ass and lift more it’ll definitely help out. I’ve gotta get shredded.

If anything I’d do contacts. But I like my glasses too. The gold ones. I got a lot of compliments from women on them too so I think I’ll be ok honestly
 

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I'm more concerned about your eyes than anything else. They have a bit of a sad look to them. I would retake some photos while thinking of positive stuff. Also, not so close-up. These phone cameras have fairly wide lenses which are not flattering to the face. If you want to do closeups, it's best to use a 50 mm lens on a regular dslr camera.

Also, a bathroom picture isn't ideal. See if you can get some outdoor shots with your face in-focus and the background blurred. That can make all the difference in the world.

Other than that, you have no innate problems in the looks department.
 

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Let me tell you a secret about SMV. It has a lot more to do with just looks, although looks are probably priority #1.

You dont control your SMV but you do indirectly impact it. What does that mean? It means that the better looking version of yourself will get hotter chicks. It means the more money you make and the higher status you have gets you hotter chicks. The more positive you are and the better you socialize gets you hotter chicks.

How does that impact your SMV? Its simple. When other chicks that are 7's see you with a chick that is an 8, they want a piece of the action. If you are with a 9, the 8's and other 9's want a piece of the action.

Your SMV is equated by the women you are seen with. Whether that be snap pics, fb pics, seen out in public with these better looking women, etc.
That is how your SMV is established but you can do the things needed to self improve and attract better looking women who will raise your SMV for you.

If you are hitting a 6 then you better have her come over after dark, no snaps, no social media pics and if she brings you lunch at work tell her to park on the street and you come get it from her lol.

If she is a 9, have her bring that lunch into your office and watch how fast any hot woman you work with wants to fvck you.

We have all heard people say that as soon as they got into a relationship with someone, chicks out of nowhere started showing interest. The key with SMV is that you have to attract and be seen with chicks that are on the same level or higher and those other chicks will start knocking the door down.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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