"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Michele l'Arcangelo

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Originally posted by Thraxeh
no, no there not.

please, i dont want another person in this word doing the emo thing
i know what you mean... but actually i wanted one before everyone started doing the emo-hair fad.... i jsut kept cutting it.. thats all
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by bob88
...dont u think ur clothes are alittle too big for you....?
buy smaller clothes
 

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Originally posted by MikeS
k. my hairs fine... i go between punk/prep on a reg basis.. my hair suites me fine in both "labels" (stupid "scenesters"making me use labels)... i didnt fix my hair for that picture... was jsut at home and bro took my pic.

besides the girl im interested in.. whos interested in me loves long hair... girls now a days for some reason love shaggy hair.


actually the reason im not cutting it is im trying to get the "emo flip".. ive wanted to do that hair style forever.. jsut always kept cutting it... now im not cutting it for a looong time.... emo flips are tighttt
Hang on a sec, you asked what people thought of your picture. You are being given advice, ie, there are alright basics there and you reject it all. Your clothes suck if you wear shirts, wear them with style. Your trousers look like you shat yourself and your hair needs something done to it.

If you dont want advice dont ask for it.

5/10 (on a generous day). You are average.
 

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Originally posted by JSH
Hang on a sec, you asked what people thought of your picture. You are being given advice, ie, there are alright basics there and you reject it all. Your clothes suck if you wear shirts, wear them with style. Your trousers look like you shat yourself and your hair needs something done to it.

If you dont want advice dont ask for it.

5/10 (on a generous day). You are average.
are you confused? you cannot see me jeans anywhere in MY picture.... are you looking at the other guys picture?.. dun care.. jsut seemed like you had no idea what you were saying.
 

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MikeS why are u so pre occupied with your looks? Y not go on hot or not or some chick site and post a pic. Honestly to me you look like a nerd. peace out. Y do u get so defensive when somebody makes a negative remark about your looks?


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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by Don Rockstar
got any nudes ? :p

go ask some girls or something.
:crackup: dude thats so ****in funny.

My dogs ass looks better than you. You look like a homo trying to do the faggety emo ****. buzz your head, get plastic surgerry and then maybe youlll be a 4


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Originally posted by MikeS
are you confused? you cannot see me jeans anywhere in MY picture.... are you looking at the other guys picture?.. dun care.. jsut seemed like you had no idea what you were saying.
yeah the two of you confused me
 

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I've got a 9. someting on hotornot, but that site rating is BS. Ive got like a bunch of 1s, 5s and 10s. Nothing in between, it's just people clicking on random stuff.
 

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
I've got a 9. someting on hotornot, but that site rating is BS. Ive got like a bunch of 1s, 5s and 10s. Nothing in between, it's just people clicking on random stuff.
yeah that site lowered my confidence till i realized that noone acctually rates you all i have are 1s and 5s and i know im at LEAST a 5 not a 1
 

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
yeah that site lowered my confidence till i realized that noone acctually rates you all i have are 1s and 5s and i know im at LEAST a 5 not a 1
most people vote the first few times then they get bored and just press a random number to see the next one, waiting for a hot person


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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You certainly dress to impress. But don't ask me; what do I know about fashion? I wear whatever fits. Heh
 

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Originally posted by danrizzy
You certainly dress to impress. But don't ask me; what do I know about fashion? I wear whatever fits. Heh
same that was for the photo. jeans and tshirt for me.
 

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dirtyvibe you are not secure with your looks otherwise you couldnt have started this post. anyone can look good as long as they dress sharp and take care of themselves.
 

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Originally posted by MikeS
im not gay.
YES YOU ARE

LOOKIN A LITTLE TOO HAPPY THERE CHARLIE, OR SHOULD I CALL YOU "SPANKTHEMONKEY" HAHAHAHAAHA

DUDE, NO ONE GIVES A **** HOW YOU LOOK. GO LOOK INTHE FUKIN MIRROR.

OH WAIT IT BROKE. MY BAD JP

DUDE, WHO GIVES A SHIET REALLY. WE COULD ALL RATE UR MONKEY ASS A 1 BUT IF YOU GET CHICKS LIKE U SAY, IT DOESN'T MATTER. IF WE RATE U A 10, AND U GET NO CHICKS, THEN IT DOESN'T MATTER (UNLESS U WANNA PICK UP PPL LIKE US. PSST..PM ME FOR NUMBER;) )





JP ABOUT THE NUMBER. DON'T ****IN PM ME
 

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LMAO ^^^
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why isn't this closed yet?
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
YES YOU ARE

LOOKIN A LITTLE TOO HAPPY THERE CHARLIE, OR SHOULD I CALL YOU "SPANKTHEMONKEY" HAHAHAHAAHA

DUDE, NO ONE GIVES A **** HOW YOU LOOK. GO LOOK INTHE FUKIN MIRROR.

OH WAIT IT BROKE. MY BAD JP

DUDE, WHO GIVES A SHIET REALLY. WE COULD ALL RATE UR MONKEY ASS A 1 BUT IF YOU GET CHICKS LIKE U SAY, IT DOESN'T MATTER. IF WE RATE U A 10, AND U GET NO CHICKS, THEN IT DOESN'T MATTER (UNLESS U WANNA PICK UP PPL LIKE US. PSST..PM ME FOR NUMBER;) )





JP ABOUT THE NUMBER. DON'T ****IN PM ME


i actually was about to freak out because that "SpankTheMonky" was pretty close to my old screenname.. and that you actually knew me.

but no i'm not gay, kid.

Plus its nice to smile for pictures.... its NOT cool to try bein "thug" and look mad for pictures. plus i was on my guitar... you play the guitar to make you feel better.. you don't play it to feel "thug" and mad. you are VERY bad at this insulting thing. besides kid, I know I gotthe looks... pictures can't tell ****... only people who really see you can tell...

at least im not a kid that wears old gray monster truck shirts, and tight tight black jeans that doesnt go past your ankle and dirty black shoes with paint on it. Think again when you think someone looks bad... i was always known for my looks, but not the personality... im HERE for my personality change
 

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alrite, theres nothing wrong with asking an opinion of how you look. its the internet so no ones gonna call you out and say ur gay

for the first person, you look aite. im not good at judging guys unless they real sexy or some sh*t...your clothes are fine if that style works for u. i think itd look better with an unbuttoned shirt if ur wearing shorts tho. i like the popped collar tho pimp haha

Mike, i seen u before in the other thread. u the guy goin after the cheerleader haha wus up. i think u look good too....ur style works pretty well with u. nothing wrong with how u look, jus focus on staying confident in yourself.

hope that helps
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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