"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Thraxeh
no, no there not.

please, i dont want another person in this word doing the emo thing
i know what you mean... but actually i wanted one before everyone started doing the emo-hair fad.... i jsut kept cutting it.. thats all
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by bob88
...dont u think ur clothes are alittle too big for you....?
buy smaller clothes
 

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Originally posted by MikeS
k. my hairs fine... i go between punk/prep on a reg basis.. my hair suites me fine in both "labels" (stupid "scenesters"making me use labels)... i didnt fix my hair for that picture... was jsut at home and bro took my pic.

besides the girl im interested in.. whos interested in me loves long hair... girls now a days for some reason love shaggy hair.


actually the reason im not cutting it is im trying to get the "emo flip".. ive wanted to do that hair style forever.. jsut always kept cutting it... now im not cutting it for a looong time.... emo flips are tighttt
Hang on a sec, you asked what people thought of your picture. You are being given advice, ie, there are alright basics there and you reject it all. Your clothes suck if you wear shirts, wear them with style. Your trousers look like you shat yourself and your hair needs something done to it.

If you dont want advice dont ask for it.

5/10 (on a generous day). You are average.
 

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Originally posted by JSH
Hang on a sec, you asked what people thought of your picture. You are being given advice, ie, there are alright basics there and you reject it all. Your clothes suck if you wear shirts, wear them with style. Your trousers look like you shat yourself and your hair needs something done to it.

If you dont want advice dont ask for it.

5/10 (on a generous day). You are average.
are you confused? you cannot see me jeans anywhere in MY picture.... are you looking at the other guys picture?.. dun care.. jsut seemed like you had no idea what you were saying.
 

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MikeS why are u so pre occupied with your looks? Y not go on hot or not or some chick site and post a pic. Honestly to me you look like a nerd. peace out. Y do u get so defensive when somebody makes a negative remark about your looks?


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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Don Rockstar
got any nudes ? :p

go ask some girls or something.
:crackup: dude thats so ****in funny.

My dogs ass looks better than you. You look like a homo trying to do the faggety emo ****. buzz your head, get plastic surgerry and then maybe youlll be a 4


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Originally posted by MikeS
are you confused? you cannot see me jeans anywhere in MY picture.... are you looking at the other guys picture?.. dun care.. jsut seemed like you had no idea what you were saying.
yeah the two of you confused me
 

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I've got a 9. someting on hotornot, but that site rating is BS. Ive got like a bunch of 1s, 5s and 10s. Nothing in between, it's just people clicking on random stuff.
 

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Originally posted by dirtyvibe
I've got a 9. someting on hotornot, but that site rating is BS. Ive got like a bunch of 1s, 5s and 10s. Nothing in between, it's just people clicking on random stuff.
yeah that site lowered my confidence till i realized that noone acctually rates you all i have are 1s and 5s and i know im at LEAST a 5 not a 1
 

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Originally posted by Brian20o2
yeah that site lowered my confidence till i realized that noone acctually rates you all i have are 1s and 5s and i know im at LEAST a 5 not a 1
most people vote the first few times then they get bored and just press a random number to see the next one, waiting for a hot person


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You certainly dress to impress. But don't ask me; what do I know about fashion? I wear whatever fits. Heh
 

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Originally posted by danrizzy
You certainly dress to impress. But don't ask me; what do I know about fashion? I wear whatever fits. Heh
same that was for the photo. jeans and tshirt for me.
 

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dirtyvibe you are not secure with your looks otherwise you couldnt have started this post. anyone can look good as long as they dress sharp and take care of themselves.
 

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Originally posted by MikeS
im not gay.
YES YOU ARE

LOOKIN A LITTLE TOO HAPPY THERE CHARLIE, OR SHOULD I CALL YOU "SPANKTHEMONKEY" HAHAHAHAAHA

DUDE, NO ONE GIVES A **** HOW YOU LOOK. GO LOOK INTHE FUKIN MIRROR.

OH WAIT IT BROKE. MY BAD JP

DUDE, WHO GIVES A SHIET REALLY. WE COULD ALL RATE UR MONKEY ASS A 1 BUT IF YOU GET CHICKS LIKE U SAY, IT DOESN'T MATTER. IF WE RATE U A 10, AND U GET NO CHICKS, THEN IT DOESN'T MATTER (UNLESS U WANNA PICK UP PPL LIKE US. PSST..PM ME FOR NUMBER;) )





JP ABOUT THE NUMBER. DON'T ****IN PM ME
 

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LMAO ^^^
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why isn't this closed yet?
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
YES YOU ARE

LOOKIN A LITTLE TOO HAPPY THERE CHARLIE, OR SHOULD I CALL YOU "SPANKTHEMONKEY" HAHAHAHAAHA

DUDE, NO ONE GIVES A **** HOW YOU LOOK. GO LOOK INTHE FUKIN MIRROR.

OH WAIT IT BROKE. MY BAD JP

DUDE, WHO GIVES A SHIET REALLY. WE COULD ALL RATE UR MONKEY ASS A 1 BUT IF YOU GET CHICKS LIKE U SAY, IT DOESN'T MATTER. IF WE RATE U A 10, AND U GET NO CHICKS, THEN IT DOESN'T MATTER (UNLESS U WANNA PICK UP PPL LIKE US. PSST..PM ME FOR NUMBER;) )





JP ABOUT THE NUMBER. DON'T ****IN PM ME


i actually was about to freak out because that "SpankTheMonky" was pretty close to my old screenname.. and that you actually knew me.

but no i'm not gay, kid.

Plus its nice to smile for pictures.... its NOT cool to try bein "thug" and look mad for pictures. plus i was on my guitar... you play the guitar to make you feel better.. you don't play it to feel "thug" and mad. you are VERY bad at this insulting thing. besides kid, I know I gotthe looks... pictures can't tell ****... only people who really see you can tell...

at least im not a kid that wears old gray monster truck shirts, and tight tight black jeans that doesnt go past your ankle and dirty black shoes with paint on it. Think again when you think someone looks bad... i was always known for my looks, but not the personality... im HERE for my personality change
 

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alrite, theres nothing wrong with asking an opinion of how you look. its the internet so no ones gonna call you out and say ur gay

for the first person, you look aite. im not good at judging guys unless they real sexy or some sh*t...your clothes are fine if that style works for u. i think itd look better with an unbuttoned shirt if ur wearing shorts tho. i like the popped collar tho pimp haha

Mike, i seen u before in the other thread. u the guy goin after the cheerleader haha wus up. i think u look good too....ur style works pretty well with u. nothing wrong with how u look, jus focus on staying confident in yourself.

hope that helps
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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