"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Iago

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Here is a girl I know who shows all the signs of being an attention hoe.

She's flirty...
Few female freinds...
Low self esteem, making her constantly seek comments from the men around her.
She is always asking me to give her number on a scale of 1 to 10....
And since she doesn't believe anything I say, I told her I would take it to the DJ forum.

Here she is guys...

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BRAZO8S&key=DHT
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Andromax

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Seems like a bad picture of her, like she would be better looking with better camera work or in real life.

She sounds like most girls her age. What girl isnt an attention ho?

Anyways, Ill give her a 6 based on that pic, but I could see her being as high as an 8 spruced up. You cant really tell from a pic lke that though.

That smile she is flashing is kinda stupid.. hehehe
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MrHarris

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Forget these guys Iago. Your girl is cute. She is mixed latin and black? Puerto Rican perhaps?

Anyways your asking for trouble posting a womans photo on this site. These guys are not mature enough for something like judging your girls photo. Also each persons taste is individual. What you will think is a 9 others will not like.

Also a photo doesn't capture the essence which attracts you to a person. So I would refrain from doing this again.

To do so is to be stuck in your ego. You don't need the validation of the men on a dating sites approval to date someone. If she makes you feel good then go for it.
 
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Iago

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I'm afraid she isn't up for dating....

Too crazy for me. But she does have a good sense of humor....

I'll go tell her to wax.
 
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PuertoRican_Lover

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She is a cute girl - and yes it looks like she likes attention as most women do!!!! Her "goodness" or "badness" is based on what she says and does!!! How is she as a person and is she truly a hor (having sexual relations with a man)??
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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NewMan

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I give her a solid 5.

Right in the middle of the bell curve.

Not a chick I would go for.
 
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Alpine

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I don't know about a bell curve, maybe right in the middle a bell end:D

She does look a bit hairy, but hey, that can be fixed.
 
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Paradox

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Looks like a 6 to me.

moved to Anything else
 
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Climax

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Not My Style...

4... maybe a 5 if she went for a wax and pampered herself up.


Laterz...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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