"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rate My Attention Hoe

Iago

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Here is a girl I know who shows all the signs of being an attention hoe.

She's flirty...
Few female freinds...
Low self esteem, making her constantly seek comments from the men around her.
She is always asking me to give her number on a scale of 1 to 10....
And since she doesn't believe anything I say, I told her I would take it to the DJ forum.

Here she is guys...

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BRAZO8S&key=DHT
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Andromax

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Seems like a bad picture of her, like she would be better looking with better camera work or in real life.

She sounds like most girls her age. What girl isnt an attention ho?

Anyways, Ill give her a 6 based on that pic, but I could see her being as high as an 8 spruced up. You cant really tell from a pic lke that though.

That smile she is flashing is kinda stupid.. hehehe
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MrHarris

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Forget these guys Iago. Your girl is cute. She is mixed latin and black? Puerto Rican perhaps?

Anyways your asking for trouble posting a womans photo on this site. These guys are not mature enough for something like judging your girls photo. Also each persons taste is individual. What you will think is a 9 others will not like.

Also a photo doesn't capture the essence which attracts you to a person. So I would refrain from doing this again.

To do so is to be stuck in your ego. You don't need the validation of the men on a dating sites approval to date someone. If she makes you feel good then go for it.
 

Iago

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I'm afraid she isn't up for dating....

Too crazy for me. But she does have a good sense of humor....

I'll go tell her to wax.
 
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She is a cute girl - and yes it looks like she likes attention as most women do!!!! Her "goodness" or "badness" is based on what she says and does!!! How is she as a person and is she truly a hor (having sexual relations with a man)??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NewMan

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I give her a solid 5.

Right in the middle of the bell curve.

Not a chick I would go for.
 

Alpine

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I don't know about a bell curve, maybe right in the middle a bell end:D

She does look a bit hairy, but hey, that can be fixed.
 

Paradox

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Looks like a 6 to me.

moved to Anything else
 

Climax

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Not My Style...

4... maybe a 5 if she went for a wax and pampered herself up.


Laterz...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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