rate milf interest level

[pyros]

Hi.

Some days ago a milf around 39-41 years old (I'm 28) messaged me on FB because she wants to go to my salsa school and she saw me on my school's FB salsa group and said she'd like to share the fee with me (its a 2x1 kind of offer for new students).
I said that was fine, blah blah and added her on FB. She's pretty cute, thin and dresses very femenine, although she's kind of old for my taste.
Some days later I messaged her on FB and asked her if she already went to pay her half of the fee, we talked...she said I was fun and interesting and she gave me her movile number without me asking.

Yesterday she asked me if I was gonna attend a salsa lesson, I said I was going with a female friend of mine, she said she was coming also and asked me in a subtle way if this girl was just a friend, to which I replied that yes, she was just my friend. I told her that she could be my partner for that evening if she'd like, and she said sure.

We met at the main door, we talked for a a bit before the lesson started. Until that point I had the feeling that she liked me, but once at the door I felt she did not like me that much, I dont know, it was my intuition.
We danced for two hours, it was fun, ok. After this I just went to say hello to some of my dancing friends and I forgot about her.

This morning she sent me a weird text:
her: "hi! thants for yesterday!! greetings!"
me: "hahah, you're too formal...dont say thanks, just invite me to a beer some day"
her: "hahaha, Im too formal yes! sure we could have a drink next wednesday before our salsa lesson or on friday if you're going to our school to dance, Im going!"


So this is it. What do you think? when I sent her my text suggesting to go to grab a drink I was refering to go to some bar, but she suggested to meet at our salsa school (which is a pub as well).
I think she would like to build some rapport but...not sure if I should accept or ignore her. If I ignore her nothing will happen, if I agree to meet for a drink before our lesson it just feels like low interest but on another hand if I build some rapport we could bang in some days or weeks.


Opinions? thanks.

 

[TheException]

Sounds interested......but you will only ever find out if you make a move. I liked the line you used to set up the drinks before class. Now just capitalize on it if you want.

 

[pyros]

anybody else?

 

[SgtSplacker]

Dude go hang out with that girl, you act like seeing her is going to hurt you or something. From what it seems you should not even have to buy her drinks because it's coming off as a friend thing. I'd friend my arse right into her panties.

She's 40 so theres no nonsense there, she's too old to make babies practically so she knows she is not relationship material for you. Just hit it man, you're golden...

 

[DragonBlood]

This is NOT low interest. This is what a girl sounds like when she asks you out.

She gave you lots of options instantly from less than a rumble and at places she knows you are going to be at. STRIKE.

 

[pyros]

Hello. Update:

so this milf texted me again a couple of weeks ago to have a drink before salsa class. We did, it was ok, then we attended our salsa lesson.

Some days later she texted me again and suggested to have a drink on Sunday. I was not very excited about it, (cause she's 42) but ok, I agreed.
We met for a light dinner and we went to dance, and in short... we ended up making out cause she was into me so I thought: what the heck, lets try.

Anyway, the weirdest thing about this milf was that...she has great entitlement issues! I could not believe it!
If Im honest, she looks very good for her age but...during dinner she told me several times how guys want to approach her, get in her pants...everywhere. That she does not like to go to clubs or pubs because of this. That many of her female friends envy her so she has not many girl friends.
She said that she rejects guys pretty fast and is very picky when choosing one, etc etc etc....I got damn bored! she also said that she expects guys to put effort to get her and commented some other princess thoughts as well.
I got the vibe that she must not be very exciting when fuc-king...


Anyway, can you believe it?? a 42 y.o. milf that thinks she deserves as if she was a 24 years old hottie! probably she was a hottie when younger but noW??? what the fffffuc-k?

Now, Im putting 0 effort in this situation so I may suggest to go to grab a drink at her place and that's all the work Im gonna put. lol.

 

[TheException]

If Im honest, she looks very good for her age but...during dinner she told me several times how guys want to approach her, get in her pants...everywhere. That she does not like to go to clubs or pubs because of this. That many of her female friends envy her so she has not many girl friends.
She said that she rejects guys pretty fast and is very picky when choosing one, etc etc etc....I got damn bored! she also said that she expects guys to put effort to get her and commented some other princess thoughts as well.
I got the vibe that she must not be very exciting when fuc-king...


Anyway, can you believe it?? a 42 y.o. milf that thinks she deserves as if she was a 24 years old hottie! probably she was a hottie when younger but noW??? what the fffffuc-k?

Your confusing "entitlement" with "qualifying".

Dude....shes qualifying herself to you, as in trying to impress you. It be like us bragging to a chick about what a cool job we have and how much money we make. She said she expects "effort to be put into her"......ya and? What girl wouldnt say this....thats not entitlement pal.

What happened is you guys made out so now she thinks theres actually a chance. She realizes shes 42 so shes heavy qualifying hoping to "catch you". Sounds like your inexperienced with women if you get bothered when they "talk about other men"....they all do this for attention.

 

[marmel75]

Dude, just f***king punish her in the bedroom by pounding the life out of her...women get excited in the bedroom based on what YOU are doing to them...

 

[pyros]

Hi.

I just wanted to say that I banged the milf, lol.

I had to have 5 'dates' (meetings from 30 mins to 2 hours) with her before getting her in bed.

She has great body for her age, but...its way better to bang a 20-something years old girl really, but I wanted to try it.


Cheers!

 

[thelastmanonearth]

5 dates was 4 too many

 

[Masculinity]

Cool, what was it like? Was it what you expected?