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Would you?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Rate HB
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Bingo-Player
Master Don Juan
she's not ugly, but not my type at all probably wouldn't even look at twice on the street but that could just be me.
also looks as though she's carrying a little bit too much puppy fat.
also looks as though she's carrying a little bit too much puppy fat.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
Weird angle & nope
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
JohnChops
Master Don Juan
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11/10.
BetterCallSaul
Master Don Juan
Definitely look to be a bit heavy. I'd rate her a 5.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Master Don Juan
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She squirts....add +1.5
But yea...she pays for everything.... Drives all the time....
Except, I work out....I want a mate that values that too
But yea...she pays for everything.... Drives all the time....
Except, I work out....I want a mate that values that too
HoneyHitter
Senior Don Juan
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Rating her 6 because she has a pretty smile.
The extra weight affects her overall attractiveness. Has HB7 potential if she loses about 12lbs.
The extra weight affects her overall attractiveness. Has HB7 potential if she loses about 12lbs.
I think I just threw up in my mouth a little.
Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
I rate her a 5.5 out of 10. A classic chubby chick with potential, She has a cute face but she needs to lose 20-30 pounds.
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Master Don Juan
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U guys must be ugly....shes a 4.3
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Nobody who's attractive let's their body go to shyt
old_skoolr
Master Don Juan
I'd hit it, just wouldn't brag about it.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Fatty fatty 2 x 4, can't get throught the bathroom door.
Nursery rhyme that I surprisingly learned from my mother.
And no.
Nursery rhyme that I surprisingly learned from my mother.
And no.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.