"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Rat Utopia Reconsidered.

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About ten years ago I posted a thread on Calhouns Seminal work on Mice and Rats his"Behavioural Sink".
our little group is somewhat reflective of Society at large and many of the Rat Utopia Groups that evolved can be seen in our members...Not saying we have any cannibals or murderers yet LOL...But the evolution we are part of and reflect are certainly worth considering in the light of this interesting article
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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medium.com is a notorious paywall site

Can you copy & paste what's in that article?
I refuse to click on that link.
 

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Hi Tilex,
This site will only take 10.000 words...There is no Paywall.
 

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It was looking hopeful for a while with WFH. But now all the inhuman resource departments are demanding 2 days a week in the office. So back into the box we all go.
 

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medium.com is a notorious paywall site

Can you copy & paste what's in that article?
I refuse to click on that link.
Download Firefox and then download this free browser extension to bypass any paywall on a news site


It was looking hopeful for a while with WFH. But now all the inhuman resource departments are demanding 2 days a week in the office. So back into the box we all go.
It's because they have a multi year lease on those office spaces, they don't want it to go to "waste". They claim it's for productivity but we all know that is BS.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quote:

The mouse is a simple creature, but it must develop the skills for courtship, child-rearing, territorial defense and personal role fulfillment on the domestic and communal front. If such skills fail to develop, the individual will neither reproduce nor find a productive role within society.

As with mice, all species will grow older and gradually die out. There is nothing to suggest human society isn’t prone to the same developments that led to the demise of Universe 25.

If the number of qualified individuals exceeds the number of openings in society, chaos and alienation will be the inevitable outcomes.
Individuals raised under the latter conditions will lack any relation to the real world. Physiological fulfillment will be their only drive in life.

Just as mice thrive on a set of complex behaviors, the concern for others developed in post-industrial human skills and understandings is vital to man’s continuance as a species. The loss of these attributes within a civilization could lead to its collapse
 

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medium.com is a notorious paywall site

Can you copy & paste what's in that article?
I refuse to click on that link.
Oddly medium shows signed in users a paywall, the same link opened in incognito(gues user) doesn't show the paywall.
 
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