Rare LTR Question: What is the best sex you ever had?

[bigneil]

I'm not talking about one night stands that were somehow magical, or the fact you had 200 partners. This is about Limerance, which relates to Infatuation and thus Long Term Relationships. This question is in regard to the simple fact that (in some cases) sex can get better and better when you stay with the same person over time (not necessarily in a commitment).

I'm wondering: for a given relationship, how long can sex get better, and how intense does it get? Did you ever have a relationship where the sex got increasingly intense when you thought it couldn't get any better, and how did it eventually end (or did it)? What was the most intense sex you ever had in that regard?

For example: I once had a mushroom trip-like experience during sex, I sort of felt elevated to a cosmic plane, but only for a few seconds, and only once, 5 years ago. Can two people achieve Nirvana via sex versus Meditation?

 

[AlphaNate]

I've had good sex towards the end of LTRs, but can't say I've had better sex towards the end than the beginning.

Sex is most exciting when it's a girl you've never been with and she knows what she's doing.

 

[lizardking82]

If the relationship is going well, the sex gets better because you get to know each other and can "hit" each other in the right spots effectively and quickly. Also, the more emotional intimacy you feel with someone, the more free you are to reveal your real sexual desires so yeah, I had the best sex week in, week out in my last relationship, on a constant basis. However, I have had better sex than that for sure.

 

[Von]

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