I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ummmmOriginally posted by x0dus
Rock isn't a 'beat'. A 'beat' is the basic rhythmic unit in a piece of music. Rock music isn't defined by it's rhythm its defined by the instruments and sounds made with those instruments.
But yes, a LOT of Rap 'songs' use rock, classical, jazz or blues samples and make insane amounts of money by writing some half hearted repetitive lyrics.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
no, there is a thing called a 'rock beat' i'm not a drummer so its sort of hard to explain, but if i get my brother (a drummer) to play a rock beat, i can pretty much play the notes to anything to that beat and it will be a rock song simply because of the changes and rhythm of the beatOriginally posted by x0dus
Rock isn't a 'beat'. A 'beat' is the basic rhythmic unit in a piece of music. Rock music isn't defined by it's rhythm its defined by the instruments and sounds made with those instruments.
But yes, a LOT of Rap 'songs' use rock, classical, jazz or blues samples and make insane amounts of money by writing some half hearted repetitive lyrics.