She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ummmmOriginally posted by x0dus
Rock isn't a 'beat'. A 'beat' is the basic rhythmic unit in a piece of music. Rock music isn't defined by it's rhythm its defined by the instruments and sounds made with those instruments.
But yes, a LOT of Rap 'songs' use rock, classical, jazz or blues samples and make insane amounts of money by writing some half hearted repetitive lyrics.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
no, there is a thing called a 'rock beat' i'm not a drummer so its sort of hard to explain, but if i get my brother (a drummer) to play a rock beat, i can pretty much play the notes to anything to that beat and it will be a rock song simply because of the changes and rhythm of the beatOriginally posted by x0dus
Rock isn't a 'beat'. A 'beat' is the basic rhythmic unit in a piece of music. Rock music isn't defined by it's rhythm its defined by the instruments and sounds made with those instruments.
But yes, a LOT of Rap 'songs' use rock, classical, jazz or blues samples and make insane amounts of money by writing some half hearted repetitive lyrics.