You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ummmmOriginally posted by x0dus
Rock isn't a 'beat'. A 'beat' is the basic rhythmic unit in a piece of music. Rock music isn't defined by it's rhythm its defined by the instruments and sounds made with those instruments.
But yes, a LOT of Rap 'songs' use rock, classical, jazz or blues samples and make insane amounts of money by writing some half hearted repetitive lyrics.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
no, there is a thing called a 'rock beat' i'm not a drummer so its sort of hard to explain, but if i get my brother (a drummer) to play a rock beat, i can pretty much play the notes to anything to that beat and it will be a rock song simply because of the changes and rhythm of the beatOriginally posted by x0dus
Rock isn't a 'beat'. A 'beat' is the basic rhythmic unit in a piece of music. Rock music isn't defined by it's rhythm its defined by the instruments and sounds made with those instruments.
But yes, a LOT of Rap 'songs' use rock, classical, jazz or blues samples and make insane amounts of money by writing some half hearted repetitive lyrics.